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69. "RE: Kelly Graduating "
GeeGee I've read most of your posts and, not that it matters but, I DO believe you are her sister. Because of that I will try hard not to sound disrespectful here. It seemed to me that Kelly had to de-humanize a person before she could ever feel for them or have any compassion for them. Like if she barrated them enough that they crumble to a vulnerable state where Kelly feels she reigns, has power over, or is superior to, then and only then does she see them as a person. (Like with Kim, the only time Kelly softened with Kim is when Kim came to her crying and apologizing) She got along with Jodi only when Jodi was vulnerable. Does she have such a low self-esteem that she thinks just everyone is out to get her and has to tear them down to find their weakness so she can feel good about herself? She admits in confessionals how she lashes out to people (in her anger state) very vindictively. It's calculated like her cooking next to Jodi just because she wanted to get under her skin. This type behavior really warrants therapy, I'm wondering if she does this to those she loves as well or just anyone outside of family. Is she getting after care treatment of any type? She has the capacity to reach out but I don't know if it's just Kelly's personality that has a mean streak or if she is just so filled with the inner voice nagging of low self-esteem that she reacts this way and doesn't even realize why.

Is she the kind of person that if a family member wanted to reach out to her that they would have to seem weak to her in order for her to listen to them or be open to communication with them? I think it must be quite difficult for you to understand right now and to cope with her with all of her issues.

I see that you love her and get frustrated that she seems just so unreachable.. sometimes it's best just to love them from afar and not bring that negativity into your own life.. which is your choice because unless Kelly can treat you with respect then she's making the choice to repel even her family members. If you do want a relationship with her and are able to take all of the brunt of her animosity of the world then you may have to change your whole way of communicating with her, almost presenting yourself as the one needing her just to get your foot in the door to discuss further assistance for her, maybe even asking her to go with you so that you are both getting help but essentially it's just supporting Kelly to get the help she needs. I hope that you take no backlash from Kelly's appearance on the show because from what I see.. the two of you are quite different people. Thanks for coming and sharing with us.

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 Kelly Graduating   kree     04-19-06       
   RE: Kelly Graduating   GeeGee45     04-19-06     1  
     RE: Kelly Graduating   kree     04-19-06     3  
         RE: Kelly Graduating   GeeGee45     04-19-06     4  
     RE: Kelly Graduating   punkin123     04-19-06     5  
     RE: Kelly Graduating   00fun     04-19-06     6  
         RE: Kelly Graduating   GeeGee45     04-19-06     7  
             RE: Kelly Graduating   kree     04-19-06     8  
             RE: Kelly Graduating   craft123     04-19-06     17  
                 WARNING - craft123   Cygnus X1     04-19-06     18  
                 Comment   AyaK     04-19-06     27  
                     RE: Comment   sharnina     04-19-06     34  
                         RE: Comment   flashwife     04-19-06     36  
                             RE: Comment   GeeGee45     04-25-06     72  
                                 RE: Comment   flashwife     04-25-06     73  
                     RE: Comment   Cleverone     04-20-06     42  
   RE: Kelly Graduating   eire_heart74     04-19-06     2  
     RE: Kelly Graduating   2KOOL     04-19-06     9  
         RE: Kelly Graduating   Juliejo     04-19-06     10  
             RE: Kelly Graduating   GeeGee45     04-19-06     13  
         RE: Kelly Graduating   staceeturner     04-19-06     11  
             RE: Kelly Graduating   Sues     04-19-06     14  
         RE: Kelly Graduating   GeeGee45     04-19-06     12  
             RE: Kelly Graduating   zipitgood     04-19-06     16  
             RE: Kelly Graduating   sharnina     04-19-06     20  
         RE: Kelly Graduating   Zoey     04-19-06     15  
             RE: Kelly Graduating   26mitogo     04-19-06     19  
                 RE: Kelly Graduating   Omniscia     04-19-06     21  
                     RE: Kelly Graduating   GeeGee45     04-19-06     23  
                         RE: Kelly Graduating   sharnina     04-19-06     31  
                         RE: Kelly Graduating   ChristinaJB     04-20-06     38  
                         RE: Kelly Graduating   tracyc1166     04-21-06     58  
                         RE: Kelly Graduating   Chienne     04-24-06     69  
         RE: Kelly Graduating   beckettrep     04-20-06     37  
   RE: Kelly Graduating   MizJazmine     04-19-06     22  
     RE: Kelly Graduating   mcclan9     04-19-06     24  
         RE: Kelly Graduating   flashwife     04-19-06     25  
             RE: Kelly Graduating   cronemoon     04-19-06     26  
                 RE: Kelly Graduating   kalalala     04-19-06     28  
                     RE: Kelly Graduating   zipitgood     04-19-06     29  
                         RE: Kelly Graduating   ChristinaJB     04-20-06     39  
                     RE: Kelly Graduating   GeeGee45     04-19-06     30  
                         RE: Kelly Graduating   sharnina     04-19-06     32  
                             RE: Kelly Graduating   standinmytruth     04-19-06     33  
                                 RE: Kelly Graduating   sharnina     04-19-06     35  
                                     RE: Kelly Graduating   Shazbot     04-20-06     40  
                                         RE: Kelly Graduating   standinmytruth     04-20-06     41  
                                             RE: Kelly Graduating   Boots12565     04-20-06     43  
                                             RE: Kelly Graduating   standinmytruth     04-20-06     45  
                                             RE: Kelly Graduating   Boots12565     04-21-06     62  
                         RE: Kelly Graduating   SOfan0221     04-20-06     49  
     RE: Kelly Graduating   Cleverone     04-20-06     44  
         RE: Kelly Graduating   standinmytruth     04-20-06     46  
             RE: Kelly Graduating   sharnina     04-20-06     48  
                 RE: Kelly Graduating   Cleverone     04-21-06     59  
                     RE: Kelly Graduating   sharnina     04-21-06     60  
         RE: Kelly Graduating   Boots12565     04-20-06     47  
             RE: Kelly Graduating   staceeturner     04-20-06     50  
                 RE: Kelly Graduating   redheaded1     04-20-06     51  
                     RE: Kelly Graduating   GeeGee45     04-20-06     52  
                         RE: Kelly Graduating   tac_2     04-20-06     53  
                         RE: Kelly Graduating   NicNac     04-20-06     54  
                             RE: Kelly Graduating   GeeGee45     04-20-06     55  
                                 RE: Kelly Graduating   Juliejo     04-20-06     56  
                                 RE: Kelly Graduating   C_Mar     04-21-06     57  
                                     RE: Kelly Graduating   Gizelle     04-21-06     61  
                                         RE: Kelly Graduating   BeeBe     04-22-06     63  
                                 RE: Kelly Graduating   Speical Kay     04-23-06     64  
                                     WARNING - Speical Kay   Bebo     04-23-06     65  
                                         RE: WARNING - Speical Kay   Speical Kay     04-23-06     67  
                                             RE: WARNING - Speical Kay   Cygnus X1     04-24-06     71  
   RE: Kelly Graduating   LoveMyTiara     04-23-06     66  
     RE: Kelly Graduating   BeeBe     04-24-06     68  
   RE: Kelly Graduating   Chienne     04-24-06     70  

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