GeeGee45, you have my total sympathy. It must be so hard to have a sister that you cannot have a close, loving relationship with because of her deep seated anger.
I felt so sorry for your mom when telling was on the phone telling her how she was never, ever, ever going to be the person her mother wanted her to be, ever. I thought she took that assignment Rhonda gave her as an ok to start telling people off.
Kelly and I would last about 5 seconds in a face to face. Bullys really set me off. She may be able to kick someones a$$ just using her mouth (and I have not doubt that is true) but what kind of boastful pride is that. She appears to be the kind of person that is going to strike out first so she doesn't get her feelings hurt - that is if she has any to begin with.
It must be hard on you, as her sister, to hear your younger life played out on the soap opera that SO has become. You have my condolenses for that. I thought it was weird when Kelly called you and started right in on ....I forgive you for blah, blah, blah and I have held that against you for blah, blah, blah. I remember thinking, geesh Kelly give her a chance to speak up instead of rambling off 5 sentences and then saying ok, bye bye. I thought either it was extemely stupid editing or Kelly felt she had some big revelation which sounded so fake to me.
I hope at some point you two have the chance to come together as sisters and get close. Life is way to short to go through it with the perpetual scowl and crummy attitiue Kelly posseses. Maybe she will have an epiphany and come out of it, doubtful but stranger things have happened.