LAST EDITED ON 04-21-06 AT 04:35 PM (EST)

Hi Ayak....like Sharnina, I don't think trashing a family member to outsiders is a good thing...by speaking ill of them, it says something about "you"...you would be putting yourself down to the level of the one you trash. If I couldn't say something positive, then I'd leave it at that.

Kelly came to SO with the knowledge that she'd be airing out her laundry...her family knew as well, maybe not to what extent, but they had to assume so. I didn't think Kelly trashed her family at all...she never (as I recall) spoke negatively about them, just her self and her reaction to things that happened in the famiily that influenced her life. She talked more about her behavior and how she realized that it was inappropriate and wanted to learn how to change it....this poor woman is sooo misunderstood, primarily of her own doing, but misunderstood none the less. I wish her well and hopes she finds the way to make peace with all of her family someday.

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