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77. "RE: I am alive and well, thank you ..."
joy, you make some valid points but i would like to share something that i dont share often.

i have bipolar disorder. most ppl hear that and from then on blow off anything i say or do because i am "nuts"

i was diagnosed in 1989. i immediately stopped drinking. my experiences having this illness have run the gamut. one thing tho...i do NOT blame my behavior on the bipolar. some do. it is easy to say "i screamed at somebody because i have bipolar" replace the bipolar with ADHD.

from what i see, tj hasnt blamed her adhd for her behavior when it was bad. it can be so easy to behave badly and rather than be accountable, blame it on an illness. i dont have alot of respect for ppl who claim their behavior is due to some disorder.

tj never did. her diagnosis with adhd didnt make her blame her early anger and assertiveness on it. she recognized that she had adhd, but didnt use it as a crutch.

i know how you support tj. i just wanted to clarify about anyone thinking her behavior was ok due to adhd. we are always accountable and cant expect ppl to sympathize if we arent willing to help ourselves. you mention tj coming across as a tough girl. i was that way. in my first marriage, i made the money and decisions about things. it took alot of therapy and meds to be able to be objective. i think tj is the same. you cant ignore your issues and expect ppl to allow it, out of pity or ignorance.

pls dont think i am bashig. your support is evident and your questions valuable. i just wanted to give an idea as to how and why our behavior is often a way to not take ownership of our issues.

margaret

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 I am alive and well, thank you for ...   The Real TJ     07-22-06       
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   DedeV     07-22-06     1  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   carriem     07-22-06     2  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   JessicaRN     07-22-06     3  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     07-22-06     4  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   willowsherman     07-22-06     5  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   buttercup2     07-22-06     6  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   sm2     07-22-06     7  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   andreajesus10     07-22-06     8  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   staceeturner     07-23-06     9  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   eire_heart74     07-23-06     10  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   SunTeaz     07-24-06     11  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   kawyar     07-24-06     12  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     07-24-06     13  
     WARNING - slickeronstate   Bebo     07-24-06     14  
         RE: WARNING - slickeronstate   toyota73     07-24-06     15  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     07-25-06     16  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   dopeydwarf     07-25-06     17  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Anne18     07-25-06     18  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   txdarkfairy     07-26-06     19  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-09-06     50  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   buttercup2     07-27-06     20  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   WeShallSee     07-27-06     21  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   alliamamabear     07-28-06     22  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   magnoliaz     08-04-06     30  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   sharnina     08-04-06     31  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   magnoliaz     08-05-06     36  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-07-06     42  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   sharnina     08-04-06     32  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   magnoliaz     08-05-06     37  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   GoddessOfWisdom     07-28-06     23  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   bootsie     07-28-06     24  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   WeShallSee     07-29-06     25  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   DedeV     07-31-06     27  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   techstyle     07-29-06     26  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   sm2     07-31-06     28  
                 RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   eire_heart74     08-01-06     29  
                     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Tonya_Harding     08-04-06     33  
                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   mysticwolf     08-05-06     34  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   magnoliaz     08-05-06     35  
                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   The Real TJ     08-06-06     38  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   toyota73     08-06-06     39  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     08-06-06     41  
                                 WARNING - slickeronstate   Bebo     08-07-06     43  
                                     RE: WARNING - slickeronstate   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     79  
                                 RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Dallas80     08-18-06     71  
                                     WARNING - Dallas80   Bebo     08-18-06     72  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   buttercup2     08-08-06     46  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-18-06     70  
                                 WARNING - wallyhoohoo   Bebo     08-18-06     73  
                                     RE: WARNING - wallyhoohoo   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     78  
                                         wallyhoohoo - Yes, Another Warning   mysticwolf     08-27-06     82  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     76  
                                 WARNING: wallyhoo   mysticwolf     08-27-06     83  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-30-06     84  
                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   ltlfighter     08-06-06     40  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   staceeturner     08-07-06     44  
                                 RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     08-07-06     45  
                                     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   TiersOfJoy     08-08-06     47  
                                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   techstyle     08-08-06     48  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   The Real Kim Season3     08-09-06     49  
                                             RE: TJ and Kim were the least annoy...   carriem     08-09-06     53  
                                             RE: TJ and Kim were the least annoy...   The Real Kim Season3     08-09-06     55  
                                             RE: TJ and Kim were the least annoy...   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     80  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-10-06     56  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Cuntessa     08-12-06     68  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Cuntessa     08-09-06     51  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     08-09-06     52  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   The Real TJ     08-10-06     57  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-10-06     58  
                                             You have to hand it to TJ and Kim.   carriem     08-10-06     60  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   berwyn     08-10-06     61  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   RJ Lewis     08-10-06     62  
                                             You may want to edit   mysticwolf     08-11-06     65  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     81  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   kawyar     08-09-06     54  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Cuntessa     08-10-06     59  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   creepyoldwoman     08-10-06     63  
                                             Kim and TJ   2boysmom     08-11-06     64  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-11-06     66  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   teddi408     08-25-06     75  
                                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     77  
   Back on the Show, Please   mysticwolf     08-11-06     67  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   snoopyangel2808     08-16-06     69  
     snoopyangel2808   mysticwolf     08-18-06     74  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Madigan     08-30-06     85  

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