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"I am alive and well, thank you for ..."
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LAST EDITED ON 08-09-06 AT 12:15 PM (EST)LAST EDITED ON 08-09-06 AT 12:08 PM (EST) >LAST EDITED ON 08-08-06 >AT 06:18 PM (EST) > > I personally LOVED when >TJ said something about being >a bit#$, and "they haven't >seen nothing yet!" That's one >of my favorite lines. > Hey, maybe it's a >by product of not being >understood for a lot of >years. "Smiles all around" >doesn't release the tension, and >when you're not afraid people >will not like you (when >they already are showing some >disrespect)- I say, why >not be a bi@@#! >"Live large" (my new fav. >line, because who the heck >knows what that means- it >can be applied to just >about anything) TRY IT.
There certainly is a fine line between being assertive and being an obnoxious beotch and it takes wisdom to know the difference. I agree that "smiles all around" will never release tension while people are locking horns but there's more to conflict resolution than "kicking ##### and being a beotch". Mastering the art of communicating is truly the art of living large as is knowing how to pick your battles. Learning how to express one's self in an assertive way without bullying is the key and TJ at times came across as a BULLY on the show. Running into a confessional and boasting about being tough is nothing to be proud of and it's far from "living large". I doubt highly if that is how Iyanla defines the phrase she coined on the show. Additionally, TJ asks that people be patient and understanding of her and how her brain is wired but on the show she showed very little tolerance, patience and understanding for others. Even in one of her aforementioned posts on this thread she admits that she doesn't have patience for people who can't think at lightning speeds as she does, yet in the same breath asks that we be patient with her because she writes slow because of her disability. That's typical of the mixed messages some got from TJ on the show. And for that very reason I can see why Dr. Stan and others though she was using her ADHD as a crutch.
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The Real TJ |
07-22-06 |
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DedeV |
07-22-06 |
1 |
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carriem |
07-22-06 |
2 |
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JessicaRN |
07-22-06 |
3 |
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slickeronstate |
07-22-06 |
4 |
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willowsherman |
07-22-06 |
5 |
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buttercup2 |
07-22-06 |
6 |
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sm2 |
07-22-06 |
7 |
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andreajesus10 |
07-22-06 |
8 |
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staceeturner |
07-23-06 |
9 |
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eire_heart74 |
07-23-06 |
10 |
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SunTeaz |
07-24-06 |
11 |
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kawyar |
07-24-06 |
12 |
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slickeronstate |
07-24-06 |
13 |
WARNING - slickeronstate |
Bebo |
07-24-06 |
14 |
RE: WARNING - slickeronstate |
toyota73 |
07-24-06 |
15 |
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momof4inVA |
07-25-06 |
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dopeydwarf |
07-25-06 |
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Anne18 |
07-25-06 |
18 |
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txdarkfairy |
07-26-06 |
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momof4inVA |
08-09-06 |
50 |
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buttercup2 |
07-27-06 |
20 |
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WeShallSee |
07-27-06 |
21 |
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alliamamabear |
07-28-06 |
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magnoliaz |
08-04-06 |
30 |
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sharnina |
08-04-06 |
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magnoliaz |
08-05-06 |
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momof4inVA |
08-07-06 |
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sharnina |
08-04-06 |
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magnoliaz |
08-05-06 |
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GoddessOfWisdom |
07-28-06 |
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bootsie |
07-28-06 |
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WeShallSee |
07-29-06 |
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DedeV |
07-31-06 |
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techstyle |
07-29-06 |
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sm2 |
07-31-06 |
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eire_heart74 |
08-01-06 |
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Tonya_Harding |
08-04-06 |
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mysticwolf |
08-05-06 |
34 |
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magnoliaz |
08-05-06 |
35 |
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The Real TJ |
08-06-06 |
38 |
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toyota73 |
08-06-06 |
39 |
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slickeronstate |
08-06-06 |
41 |
WARNING - slickeronstate |
Bebo |
08-07-06 |
43 |
RE: WARNING - slickeronstate |
wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
79 |
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Dallas80 |
08-18-06 |
71 |
WARNING - Dallas80 |
Bebo |
08-18-06 |
72 |
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buttercup2 |
08-08-06 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-18-06 |
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WARNING - wallyhoohoo |
Bebo |
08-18-06 |
73 |
RE: WARNING - wallyhoohoo |
wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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wallyhoohoo - Yes, Another Warning |
mysticwolf |
08-27-06 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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WARNING: wallyhoo |
mysticwolf |
08-27-06 |
83 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-30-06 |
84 |
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ltlfighter |
08-06-06 |
40 |
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staceeturner |
08-07-06 |
44 |
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slickeronstate |
08-07-06 |
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TiersOfJoy |
08-08-06 |
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techstyle |
08-08-06 |
48 |
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The Real Kim Season3 |
08-09-06 |
49 |
RE: TJ and Kim were the least annoy... |
carriem |
08-09-06 |
53 |
RE: TJ and Kim were the least annoy... |
The Real Kim Season3 |
08-09-06 |
55 |
RE: TJ and Kim were the least annoy... |
wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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momof4inVA |
08-10-06 |
56 |
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Cuntessa |
08-12-06 |
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Cuntessa |
08-09-06 |
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slickeronstate |
08-09-06 |
52 |
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The Real TJ |
08-10-06 |
57 |
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momof4inVA |
08-10-06 |
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You have to hand it to TJ and Kim. |
carriem |
08-10-06 |
60 |
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berwyn |
08-10-06 |
61 |
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RJ Lewis |
08-10-06 |
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You may want to edit |
mysticwolf |
08-11-06 |
65 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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kawyar |
08-09-06 |
54 |
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Cuntessa |
08-10-06 |
59 |
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creepyoldwoman |
08-10-06 |
63 |
Kim and TJ |
2boysmom |
08-11-06 |
64 |
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momof4inVA |
08-11-06 |
66 |
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teddi408 |
08-25-06 |
75 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
77 |
Back on the Show, Please |
mysticwolf |
08-11-06 |
67 |
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snoopyangel2808 |
08-16-06 |
69 |
snoopyangel2808 |
mysticwolf |
08-18-06 |
74 |
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Madigan |
08-30-06 |
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