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LAST EDITED ON 08-10-06 AT 10:51 AM (EST) TJ wrote:
"I wish they would have spent more time on my disabilities and not accuse me of using it as a crutch. Having ADHD and learning disabilities is so difficult in a cookie cutter world. I want people to know, I am just wired differently. It is the difference between a Mac and a PC. Different operating systems but the end result is the same. I am always looking for ways I can become more proficient in being an expert in TJ! The problem with the world (myself included) is "we all think, you should think the way I think!" ADHD allows me the ability to process, multitask and think in lightening speed creating the efficiency needed to be a successful business owner. I have a problem solved before others even realize there is one. That gets me in trouble in my personal life because I have a hard time operating in a vulnerable space where I am not most efficient. I crave and thrive on efficiency! I admit it, I am a machine. I constantly think to myself why can't others speed up, think faster and multitask? I become frustrated when others are operating and thinking differently. Ultimately, I wanted to be a champion for all of those who feel like damaged goods just because they don't fit the mold, and learn to stop judging others for not fitting in my mold. If we acknowledge and embrace everyone's differences we would all live a bit more harmoniously." ------------------------------------------------------------- TJ, Just wondering why you would choose a Realty TV show to help you with your ADHD disability knowing full well that "Life Coaches" clearly aren't neurologists or psychotherapists. With your resources I would imagine you could have found the professional help you truly need to aid you with behavioral modifications as well as intense therapy for the post-traumatic stress and other emotional traumas you've experienced. Many of your fans were outraged that Starting Over exploited your disability and believed the coaches did more harm than good to you but YOU chose that route and I'm curious why. Did the coaches at least help you with your frustration with others who can't think or be as efficient as yourself? If you want others to be tolerant, patient, understanding and accepting of you and your disability, it might be helpful for you to practice being accepting of others as well. Not everyone can think at lightning speed but remember people have other strengths that you don't possess therefore wouldn't it be wise to practice what you preach? Thanks for your reply. C
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The Real TJ |
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DedeV |
07-22-06 |
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carriem |
07-22-06 |
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JessicaRN |
07-22-06 |
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slickeronstate |
07-22-06 |
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willowsherman |
07-22-06 |
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buttercup2 |
07-22-06 |
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sm2 |
07-22-06 |
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andreajesus10 |
07-22-06 |
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staceeturner |
07-23-06 |
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eire_heart74 |
07-23-06 |
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SunTeaz |
07-24-06 |
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kawyar |
07-24-06 |
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slickeronstate |
07-24-06 |
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WARNING - slickeronstate |
Bebo |
07-24-06 |
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toyota73 |
07-24-06 |
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momof4inVA |
07-25-06 |
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dopeydwarf |
07-25-06 |
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Anne18 |
07-25-06 |
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07-26-06 |
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momof4inVA |
08-09-06 |
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buttercup2 |
07-27-06 |
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WeShallSee |
07-27-06 |
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07-28-06 |
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magnoliaz |
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sharnina |
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magnoliaz |
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momof4inVA |
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GoddessOfWisdom |
07-28-06 |
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07-28-06 |
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WeShallSee |
07-29-06 |
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DedeV |
07-31-06 |
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techstyle |
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sm2 |
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eire_heart74 |
08-01-06 |
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Tonya_Harding |
08-04-06 |
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mysticwolf |
08-05-06 |
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magnoliaz |
08-05-06 |
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The Real TJ |
08-06-06 |
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toyota73 |
08-06-06 |
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slickeronstate |
08-06-06 |
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Bebo |
08-07-06 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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Dallas80 |
08-18-06 |
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Bebo |
08-18-06 |
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buttercup2 |
08-08-06 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-18-06 |
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Bebo |
08-18-06 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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wallyhoohoo - Yes, Another Warning |
mysticwolf |
08-27-06 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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mysticwolf |
08-27-06 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-30-06 |
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ltlfighter |
08-06-06 |
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staceeturner |
08-07-06 |
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slickeronstate |
08-07-06 |
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TiersOfJoy |
08-08-06 |
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techstyle |
08-08-06 |
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The Real Kim Season3 |
08-09-06 |
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carriem |
08-09-06 |
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The Real Kim Season3 |
08-09-06 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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momof4inVA |
08-10-06 |
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Cuntessa |
08-12-06 |
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Cuntessa |
08-09-06 |
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slickeronstate |
08-09-06 |
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The Real TJ |
08-10-06 |
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momof4inVA |
08-10-06 |
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You have to hand it to TJ and Kim. |
carriem |
08-10-06 |
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berwyn |
08-10-06 |
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RJ Lewis |
08-10-06 |
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mysticwolf |
08-11-06 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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kawyar |
08-09-06 |
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Cuntessa |
08-10-06 |
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creepyoldwoman |
08-10-06 |
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Kim and TJ |
2boysmom |
08-11-06 |
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momof4inVA |
08-11-06 |
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teddi408 |
08-25-06 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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mysticwolf |
08-11-06 |
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snoopyangel2808 |
08-16-06 |
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mysticwolf |
08-18-06 |
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