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63. "RE: I am alive and well, thank you ..."
I used to post here regularly but I've been so sick with my pregnancy that I had to take it really easy. However, seeing Kim and TJ post here got me out of my slumber.

Kim: I am so happy to get the chance to let you know how your story sort of blew up my mind. We had a very similar childhood with all of the abuse. I was watching you with my husband and I turned to him and said how you and I were hit all of the time with the belt and blah blah. Then I said to him, You know, even after all of these years, I still don't remember what I did to get all of those whippings and abuse by different adults in my life. MY husband looked at me in disbelief and said "you didn't do anything to deserve it, it was child abuse". I realized that I have spent my whole life thinking I deserved it and have been in every conflict situation expecting the other person to hit me or something. So, watching you Kim and your story, brought out this mind shattering revelation in me. And like you , Kim, I have been scared to death that I will hurt my own kids. So, I was finally able to see where this fear really came from.
Thank you Kim, for being so brave and going on tv to reach women like me.

TJ: You remind me of my son. He's wired differently as well. I fight off the "autism" label because it's used too freely, however, I give into "speech and language impaired".

My son, is wired so perfectly for this technological world we now live in but please don't try to make him a diplomat. This is all okay. Everyone always tries to label everyone else and put them and their personality traits neatly into some understandable box. However, with humans, the parts do not equal the whole.

A big lesson I got from SO was from Season 2. Rhonda took everyone to the beach and spent private time with Josie. Josie had to label a photo of herself with post it notes and describe all of her negative aspects and things she was ashamed of. Then the women came back and viewed this giant poster of Josie with all of her bad thoughts out on display. They all found out that they all felt the same way about themselves at one time or another. They all felt unloved, felt like killing someone, felt ashamed of their bodies, felt they used sex and men etc. However, just because you felt unloved at one time, doesn't make you unlovable or that you will always feel unloved. This emotion, this act in the past, doesn't define the whole human being.

So, I think that when people say terrible things to you, you have the right idea in one of your other posts. You realized that it was their projection on to you. Your post was so eloquent and reminded me of some of the things that made SO great. I think you should ask yourself if this person that says terrible things to you is an authority? Do they know what they are talking about? Consider the source. If it's a non professional , then do they really care about you or are they just projecting? Do they offer solutions for you after they tell you everything that's wrong with you? I am not talking about this forum and other posters, I am talking about the real people in your life.

TJ and Kim, you are great women. I wish you well in life and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for having the courage to go on the show.

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  Subject     Author     Message Date     ID  
 I am alive and well, thank you for ...   The Real TJ     07-22-06       
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   DedeV     07-22-06     1  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   carriem     07-22-06     2  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   JessicaRN     07-22-06     3  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     07-22-06     4  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   willowsherman     07-22-06     5  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   buttercup2     07-22-06     6  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   sm2     07-22-06     7  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   andreajesus10     07-22-06     8  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   staceeturner     07-23-06     9  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   eire_heart74     07-23-06     10  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   SunTeaz     07-24-06     11  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   kawyar     07-24-06     12  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     07-24-06     13  
     WARNING - slickeronstate   Bebo     07-24-06     14  
         RE: WARNING - slickeronstate   toyota73     07-24-06     15  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     07-25-06     16  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   dopeydwarf     07-25-06     17  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Anne18     07-25-06     18  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   txdarkfairy     07-26-06     19  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-09-06     50  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   buttercup2     07-27-06     20  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   WeShallSee     07-27-06     21  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   alliamamabear     07-28-06     22  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   magnoliaz     08-04-06     30  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   sharnina     08-04-06     31  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   magnoliaz     08-05-06     36  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-07-06     42  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   sharnina     08-04-06     32  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   magnoliaz     08-05-06     37  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   GoddessOfWisdom     07-28-06     23  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   bootsie     07-28-06     24  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   WeShallSee     07-29-06     25  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   DedeV     07-31-06     27  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   techstyle     07-29-06     26  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   sm2     07-31-06     28  
                 RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   eire_heart74     08-01-06     29  
                     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Tonya_Harding     08-04-06     33  
                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   mysticwolf     08-05-06     34  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   magnoliaz     08-05-06     35  
                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   The Real TJ     08-06-06     38  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   toyota73     08-06-06     39  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     08-06-06     41  
                                 WARNING - slickeronstate   Bebo     08-07-06     43  
                                     RE: WARNING - slickeronstate   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     79  
                                 RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Dallas80     08-18-06     71  
                                     WARNING - Dallas80   Bebo     08-18-06     72  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   buttercup2     08-08-06     46  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-18-06     70  
                                 WARNING - wallyhoohoo   Bebo     08-18-06     73  
                                     RE: WARNING - wallyhoohoo   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     78  
                                         wallyhoohoo - Yes, Another Warning   mysticwolf     08-27-06     82  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     76  
                                 WARNING: wallyhoo   mysticwolf     08-27-06     83  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-30-06     84  
                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   ltlfighter     08-06-06     40  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   staceeturner     08-07-06     44  
                                 RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     08-07-06     45  
                                     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   TiersOfJoy     08-08-06     47  
                                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   techstyle     08-08-06     48  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   The Real Kim Season3     08-09-06     49  
                                             RE: TJ and Kim were the least annoy...   carriem     08-09-06     53  
                                             RE: TJ and Kim were the least annoy...   The Real Kim Season3     08-09-06     55  
                                             RE: TJ and Kim were the least annoy...   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     80  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-10-06     56  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Cuntessa     08-12-06     68  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Cuntessa     08-09-06     51  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     08-09-06     52  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   The Real TJ     08-10-06     57  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-10-06     58  
                                             You have to hand it to TJ and Kim.   carriem     08-10-06     60  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   berwyn     08-10-06     61  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   RJ Lewis     08-10-06     62  
                                             You may want to edit   mysticwolf     08-11-06     65  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     81  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   kawyar     08-09-06     54  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Cuntessa     08-10-06     59  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   creepyoldwoman     08-10-06     63  
                                             Kim and TJ   2boysmom     08-11-06     64  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-11-06     66  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   teddi408     08-25-06     75  
                                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     77  
   Back on the Show, Please   mysticwolf     08-11-06     67  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   snoopyangel2808     08-16-06     69  
     snoopyangel2808   mysticwolf     08-18-06     74  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Madigan     08-30-06     85  

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