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"I am alive and well, thank you for ..."
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I used to post here regularly but I've been so sick with my pregnancy that I had to take it really easy. However, seeing Kim and TJ post here got me out of my slumber. Kim: I am so happy to get the chance to let you know how your story sort of blew up my mind. We had a very similar childhood with all of the abuse. I was watching you with my husband and I turned to him and said how you and I were hit all of the time with the belt and blah blah. Then I said to him, You know, even after all of these years, I still don't remember what I did to get all of those whippings and abuse by different adults in my life. MY husband looked at me in disbelief and said "you didn't do anything to deserve it, it was child abuse". I realized that I have spent my whole life thinking I deserved it and have been in every conflict situation expecting the other person to hit me or something. So, watching you Kim and your story, brought out this mind shattering revelation in me. And like you , Kim, I have been scared to death that I will hurt my own kids. So, I was finally able to see where this fear really came from. Thank you Kim, for being so brave and going on tv to reach women like me. TJ: You remind me of my son. He's wired differently as well. I fight off the "autism" label because it's used too freely, however, I give into "speech and language impaired". My son, is wired so perfectly for this technological world we now live in but please don't try to make him a diplomat. This is all okay. Everyone always tries to label everyone else and put them and their personality traits neatly into some understandable box. However, with humans, the parts do not equal the whole. A big lesson I got from SO was from Season 2. Rhonda took everyone to the beach and spent private time with Josie. Josie had to label a photo of herself with post it notes and describe all of her negative aspects and things she was ashamed of. Then the women came back and viewed this giant poster of Josie with all of her bad thoughts out on display. They all found out that they all felt the same way about themselves at one time or another. They all felt unloved, felt like killing someone, felt ashamed of their bodies, felt they used sex and men etc. However, just because you felt unloved at one time, doesn't make you unlovable or that you will always feel unloved. This emotion, this act in the past, doesn't define the whole human being. So, I think that when people say terrible things to you, you have the right idea in one of your other posts. You realized that it was their projection on to you. Your post was so eloquent and reminded me of some of the things that made SO great. I think you should ask yourself if this person that says terrible things to you is an authority? Do they know what they are talking about? Consider the source. If it's a non professional , then do they really care about you or are they just projecting? Do they offer solutions for you after they tell you everything that's wrong with you? I am not talking about this forum and other posters, I am talking about the real people in your life. TJ and Kim, you are great women. I wish you well in life and I thank you from the bottom of my heart for having the courage to go on the show.
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The Real TJ |
07-22-06 |
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DedeV |
07-22-06 |
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carriem |
07-22-06 |
2 |
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JessicaRN |
07-22-06 |
3 |
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slickeronstate |
07-22-06 |
4 |
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willowsherman |
07-22-06 |
5 |
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buttercup2 |
07-22-06 |
6 |
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sm2 |
07-22-06 |
7 |
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andreajesus10 |
07-22-06 |
8 |
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staceeturner |
07-23-06 |
9 |
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eire_heart74 |
07-23-06 |
10 |
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SunTeaz |
07-24-06 |
11 |
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kawyar |
07-24-06 |
12 |
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slickeronstate |
07-24-06 |
13 |
WARNING - slickeronstate |
Bebo |
07-24-06 |
14 |
RE: WARNING - slickeronstate |
toyota73 |
07-24-06 |
15 |
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momof4inVA |
07-25-06 |
16 |
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dopeydwarf |
07-25-06 |
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Anne18 |
07-25-06 |
18 |
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txdarkfairy |
07-26-06 |
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momof4inVA |
08-09-06 |
50 |
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buttercup2 |
07-27-06 |
20 |
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WeShallSee |
07-27-06 |
21 |
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alliamamabear |
07-28-06 |
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magnoliaz |
08-04-06 |
30 |
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sharnina |
08-04-06 |
31 |
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magnoliaz |
08-05-06 |
36 |
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momof4inVA |
08-07-06 |
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sharnina |
08-04-06 |
32 |
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magnoliaz |
08-05-06 |
37 |
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GoddessOfWisdom |
07-28-06 |
23 |
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bootsie |
07-28-06 |
24 |
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WeShallSee |
07-29-06 |
25 |
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DedeV |
07-31-06 |
27 |
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techstyle |
07-29-06 |
26 |
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sm2 |
07-31-06 |
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eire_heart74 |
08-01-06 |
29 |
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Tonya_Harding |
08-04-06 |
33 |
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mysticwolf |
08-05-06 |
34 |
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magnoliaz |
08-05-06 |
35 |
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The Real TJ |
08-06-06 |
38 |
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toyota73 |
08-06-06 |
39 |
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slickeronstate |
08-06-06 |
41 |
WARNING - slickeronstate |
Bebo |
08-07-06 |
43 |
RE: WARNING - slickeronstate |
wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
79 |
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Dallas80 |
08-18-06 |
71 |
WARNING - Dallas80 |
Bebo |
08-18-06 |
72 |
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buttercup2 |
08-08-06 |
46 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-18-06 |
70 |
WARNING - wallyhoohoo |
Bebo |
08-18-06 |
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RE: WARNING - wallyhoohoo |
wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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wallyhoohoo - Yes, Another Warning |
mysticwolf |
08-27-06 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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WARNING: wallyhoo |
mysticwolf |
08-27-06 |
83 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-30-06 |
84 |
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ltlfighter |
08-06-06 |
40 |
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staceeturner |
08-07-06 |
44 |
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slickeronstate |
08-07-06 |
45 |
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TiersOfJoy |
08-08-06 |
47 |
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techstyle |
08-08-06 |
48 |
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The Real Kim Season3 |
08-09-06 |
49 |
RE: TJ and Kim were the least annoy... |
carriem |
08-09-06 |
53 |
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The Real Kim Season3 |
08-09-06 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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momof4inVA |
08-10-06 |
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Cuntessa |
08-12-06 |
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Cuntessa |
08-09-06 |
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slickeronstate |
08-09-06 |
52 |
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The Real TJ |
08-10-06 |
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momof4inVA |
08-10-06 |
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You have to hand it to TJ and Kim. |
carriem |
08-10-06 |
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berwyn |
08-10-06 |
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RJ Lewis |
08-10-06 |
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mysticwolf |
08-11-06 |
65 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
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kawyar |
08-09-06 |
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Cuntessa |
08-10-06 |
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creepyoldwoman |
08-10-06 |
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Kim and TJ |
2boysmom |
08-11-06 |
64 |
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momof4inVA |
08-11-06 |
66 |
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teddi408 |
08-25-06 |
75 |
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wallyhoohoo |
08-27-06 |
77 |
Back on the Show, Please |
mysticwolf |
08-11-06 |
67 |
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snoopyangel2808 |
08-16-06 |
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snoopyangel2808 |
mysticwolf |
08-18-06 |
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Madigan |
08-30-06 |
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