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23. "RE: I am alive and well, thank you ..."
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>.
>
>Notoriety is a fascinating thing; it
>does feel good and I
>am honored that people want
>to know me but it
>also can become addictive and
>unhealthy. The outside validation
>is amazing and when perfect
>strangers come to me and
>tell me they love me
>I am blown away.
>But, one day I will
>be a thing of the
>past and I will have
>to pick up the pieces,
>I would rather do it
>soon than later. I
>have contemplated designing a website
>to share experiences of growth
>and resources that have helped
>me on my life's journey
>but I don't have the
>time to manage it.
>I would be obsessed with
>updating it and I have
>to be authentic so I
>would have to answer every
>email. With my disabilities an
>email this size takes about
>an hour for me to
>write. It is not
>always easy for me to
>put my thoughts together when
>I want to be vulnerable
>and as you know I
>don't do short and sweet...
>
>
>I wish they would have spent
>more time on my disabilities
>and not accuse me of
>using it as a crutch.
> Having ADHD and learning
>disabilities is so difficult in
>a cookie cutter world.
>I want people to know,
>I am just wired differently.
> It is the difference
>between a Mac and a
>PC. Different operating systems
>but the end result is
>the same. I am
>always looking for ways I
>can become more proficient in
>being an expert in TJ!
> The problem with the
>world (myself included) is "we
>all think, you should think
>the way I think!"
> ADHD allows me the
>ability to process, multitask and
>think in lightening speed creating
>the efficiency needed to be
>a successful business owner.
>I have a problem solved
>before others even realize there
>is one. That gets
>me in trouble in my
>personal life because I have
>a hard time operating in
>a vulnerable space where I
>am not most efficient.
>I crave and thrive on
>efficiency! I admit it,
>I am a machine.
>I constantly think to myself
>why can't others speed up,
>think faster and multitask?
>I become frustrated when others
>are operating and thinking differently.
> Ultimately, I wanted to
>be a champion for all
>of those who feel like
>damaged goods just because they
>don't fit the mold, and
>learn to stop judging others
>for not fitting in my
>mold. If we acknowledge
>and embrace everyone's differences we
>would all live a bit
>more harmoniously.
>
>If you have specific questions about
>my experience or disabilities I
>am happy to respond, I
>tried to post a thread
>on the message boards but
>my inexperience at the time
>got the best of me.
> It was only a
>reply so everyone did not
>see it (post is titled
>yearbook nominations). I posted
>one other time but I
>cannot remember the title.
>I am truly grateful for
>all of the support and
>kindness that views expressed.
>I am most proud of
>the fact that overall at
>first viewers did not like
>me but I became a
>favorite in the end.
>Not because I want to
>be most popular but most
>important it solidified to me
>that truth and authenticity will
>always win in the end.
> I don't know any
>other way to be, thank
>God for my disabilities.
>
>I am really busy so please
>understand if I don't get
>back to you right away
>and I would just ask
>that you respect my privacy
>and not share my personal
>email address or exploit the
>details of this correspondence?
> Thank you in advance
>for your understanding and being
>interested in my life.
>
>You guys are the bomb and
>I can't thank you enough
>for your feedback, good and
>bad. Please get over
>the typo's and incomplete sentences,
>I can't help it! I
>tried to post a picture
>of the reunion but this
>is not where I shine
>so if someone wants to
>send me step by step
>instructions I would love to
>share a pic.
>


Thanks TJ for sharing with us. Fascinating light you've shed on your ADHD. Would love to hear more about you and hope we can have some questions answered about your disability so others can gain a better understanding of it. Best wishes to you and Rick.

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 I am alive and well, thank you for ...   The Real TJ     07-22-06       
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   DedeV     07-22-06     1  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   carriem     07-22-06     2  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   JessicaRN     07-22-06     3  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     07-22-06     4  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   willowsherman     07-22-06     5  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   buttercup2     07-22-06     6  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   sm2     07-22-06     7  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   andreajesus10     07-22-06     8  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   staceeturner     07-23-06     9  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   eire_heart74     07-23-06     10  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   SunTeaz     07-24-06     11  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   kawyar     07-24-06     12  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     07-24-06     13  
     WARNING - slickeronstate   Bebo     07-24-06     14  
         RE: WARNING - slickeronstate   toyota73     07-24-06     15  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     07-25-06     16  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   dopeydwarf     07-25-06     17  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Anne18     07-25-06     18  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   txdarkfairy     07-26-06     19  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-09-06     50  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   buttercup2     07-27-06     20  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   WeShallSee     07-27-06     21  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   alliamamabear     07-28-06     22  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   magnoliaz     08-04-06     30  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   sharnina     08-04-06     31  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   magnoliaz     08-05-06     36  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-07-06     42  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   sharnina     08-04-06     32  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   magnoliaz     08-05-06     37  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   GoddessOfWisdom     07-28-06     23  
     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   bootsie     07-28-06     24  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   WeShallSee     07-29-06     25  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   DedeV     07-31-06     27  
         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   techstyle     07-29-06     26  
             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   sm2     07-31-06     28  
                 RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   eire_heart74     08-01-06     29  
                     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Tonya_Harding     08-04-06     33  
                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   mysticwolf     08-05-06     34  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   magnoliaz     08-05-06     35  
                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   The Real TJ     08-06-06     38  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   toyota73     08-06-06     39  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     08-06-06     41  
                                 WARNING - slickeronstate   Bebo     08-07-06     43  
                                     RE: WARNING - slickeronstate   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     79  
                                 RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Dallas80     08-18-06     71  
                                     WARNING - Dallas80   Bebo     08-18-06     72  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   buttercup2     08-08-06     46  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-18-06     70  
                                 WARNING - wallyhoohoo   Bebo     08-18-06     73  
                                     RE: WARNING - wallyhoohoo   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     78  
                                         wallyhoohoo - Yes, Another Warning   mysticwolf     08-27-06     82  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     76  
                                 WARNING: wallyhoo   mysticwolf     08-27-06     83  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-30-06     84  
                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   ltlfighter     08-06-06     40  
                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   staceeturner     08-07-06     44  
                                 RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     08-07-06     45  
                                     RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   TiersOfJoy     08-08-06     47  
                                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   techstyle     08-08-06     48  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   The Real Kim Season3     08-09-06     49  
                                             RE: TJ and Kim were the least annoy...   carriem     08-09-06     53  
                                             RE: TJ and Kim were the least annoy...   The Real Kim Season3     08-09-06     55  
                                             RE: TJ and Kim were the least annoy...   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     80  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-10-06     56  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Cuntessa     08-12-06     68  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Cuntessa     08-09-06     51  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   slickeronstate     08-09-06     52  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   The Real TJ     08-10-06     57  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-10-06     58  
                                             You have to hand it to TJ and Kim.   carriem     08-10-06     60  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   berwyn     08-10-06     61  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   RJ Lewis     08-10-06     62  
                                             You may want to edit   mysticwolf     08-11-06     65  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     81  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   kawyar     08-09-06     54  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Cuntessa     08-10-06     59  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   creepyoldwoman     08-10-06     63  
                                             Kim and TJ   2boysmom     08-11-06     64  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   momof4inVA     08-11-06     66  
                                             RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   teddi408     08-25-06     75  
                                         RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   wallyhoohoo     08-27-06     77  
   Back on the Show, Please   mysticwolf     08-11-06     67  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   snoopyangel2808     08-16-06     69  
     snoopyangel2808   mysticwolf     08-18-06     74  
   RE: I am alive and well, thank you ...   Madigan     08-30-06     85  

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