LAST EDITED ON 05-12-06 AT 12:57 PM (EST)

LAST EDITED ON 05-12-06 AT 12:55 PM (EST)

Oh boy another episode of "Fighting Over". Okay this whole thing came out of Antonia not having help with painting the room. I thought that Iyanla told her that she was the project manager and her 5 (five) HGs were her employees. So it was Antonia's faught #1 for not managing her own project well. Niambi initially helped Antonia because she wanted to. However, in the midst of Antonia's fussing and cussing Niambi bought into what she was saying about Christi because that is who triggers Niambi. That's where Niambi made her mistake. She should have only been down there to help Antonia and let her say what she had to say, agreed and whatever else. But she took part ownership of Antonia's problem and that's all someone like Antonia needs is someone else talking responsiblity for her mess. I do think that they should have bought this up before they left instead of at Toadie's Surprise Graduation Dinner. I would like to add that I do identify with Niambi and I am learning from Niambi being in the house, but I don't want ot see her get sucked into anyone's mess. She has enough "Siuations" to deal with.