LAST EDITED ON 05-12-06 AT 09:10 PM (EST)Sumrsno wrote: <<I thought it was strange of Christie to Wink at IV, as if to say, "Let Niambi get it out of her system.">>
MizJazmine wrote: <<don't think Christie quite understands how she may come across or how Niambi may be perceiving her. I don't know Niambi's history of interactions regarding white women. Just like I don't know Christie's history regarding black women. But there is something there because when Christie got into the camera and said what she said and the way she said it regarding Niambi and the "angry black woman" statement, in that moment to me Christie reduced Niambi down to her skin color and it really signified some thing to me about Christie.>>
Annie828 wrote: <<I think Christie is just plain JEALOUS....no other word. Niambi is thin and very fit...Christie can't seem to get along with anyone who looks better than her. JMO>>
SeasonedRefinement wrote: <<On this particular subject, with the three women involved in the conversation, only one of them made any sense to me. That was Niambi. I really do think she's speaking her mind - and she's doing it without using the SO buzz words or bs.>>
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Yes, Niambi was the only one making any sense. I see once she actually starts talking, she can express herself clearly and honestly. Christie, on the other hand, was virtually incoherent...yeah, she was talking but did she even make any sense? Maybe the drugs and alcohol took their toll on Christie's brain cells, or maybe she always had a very low intelligence, but it seems to me she has an extremely limited vocabulary and is only able to express herself with the same phrases over and over..."I'm p*ssed off", "I'm frush-tchated", "Like, grow up!", "I love you sooooooo much!". And of course, she's now memorized a few SO buzzwords that she can throw into a conversation, even if they are misused (or nonsensical in the first place).
And Christie was sooo condescending with her little wink/smirk to Iyanla while Niambi was talking, as though to say, "See how compassionate I am? I am so tolerant I'll even patiently sit here and listen to the rant of someone who is so obviously beneath me..."
And Iyanla?? Enough of the mumbo-jumbo. I see Christie exactly how Niambi does...as a whiney, judgemental punk who is clearly 100% a "taker", and it's NOT because I hear my mother's judgemental words when Christie talks, or because I am a "bitter #####". It is because Christie IS whiney and judgemental, as well as self-absorbed, ignorant, rude, jealous, bitter, and hateful.
And today was the second time Christie brought up racial comments in her confessional. Christie heard Niambi use the phrase "angry black woman" so she's going to repeat it, distorting it and using it out of context, and elaborating on it. Did Niambi ever say she feels opressed by white women? Did Niambi ever say she feels Christie is representative of all white women? Christie is so incredibly ignorant...she reminds me of someone who crawled out of some backwoods with her "Little House on the Prairie" hair, and a deep-seated jealousy of anyone who has some "book learnin'".
And yes, Christie is jealous of anyone who is thinner, better-looking, or doesn't have a mismatched, put-together-by-Dr.Frankenstein body. Remember how jealous she was of Kim? Remember how jealous she was of the people at Passages? Christie better learn to drop the jealousy because there are always going to be an awful lot of people who are prettier, smarter, more accomplished, and better-educated than she is.