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> Niambi has found Antonia's voice. >If she had a voice >she would have spoken up >to her "boy"friend who has >a girlfriend on the phone >instead she made herself look >like a fool. She follows >and kisses ##### and it's >a shame. She doesn't have >a clue to what her >problems are..yet.. When Niambi speaks >up about something it is >usually someone elses problem. I >would love for someone to >say to her: Hey Niambi, >assume your own identity. You >are a talented woman and >actually have your own voice. >Get a real man who >is unattached and deserving of >you and fight your own >battles not others, and sure >as hell not Antonia's. You >2 aren't even in the >same category. Be real.
I would agree Niambi needs to be dealing with her own issues and not forming alliances with Antonia over issues that have nothing to do with her. Antonia screwed up and didn't want to deal with her punishment for failing so she dragged Niambi into the fray. It was easier to fight Antonia's battles than to deal with her own problems so she let herself be distracted feeling like she was doing some good for a sista when instead she merely let herself be used and abused.
If your going to reach out and help someone make sure they really need your help they aren't there to make sure you drown with them.
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