Jerked around, I don't think so.If they would have pulled a sham wedding and annulled it one week later then that would have been jerked around.
You are just negative and wants everyone to feel just as negative as you. Why did you watch the show if you want to say bad things?
When I started watching the show I didn't think they would get married anyway. That is a serious decision that deserves more than 10 weeks of dating 10 different people.
I think they made the right decision and will be happy together.