If I am not mistaken, I believe LC Rhonda said that none of housemates truly know the horrors Kim sufferred as a child. I think if they did they may treat her different.

While I respect Jill's hard work, I felt that she received the deluxe, extra special treatment. They found her father, helped her find a job, helped her lose weight, got her new glasses, new hair, and more. I felt towards the end, as her "self-empowerment" grew the more arrogant she became. Kim and Jill never really had a chance to click. There was tension from the start and no real effort made to resolve it. I am very glad Jill has left the house and crossed fingers moved on.

On the other hand, Kim needed to refrain from speaking her mind at Jill's graduation. Since she cannot vent her anger at her parents, she lashes out at everyone else. Kim is still trying to win her parents love. Until she figures out that she is better off without them, lets go of the dream of a happy, loving reunion, and releases her pent up RAGE towards them, she is not going to interact well with anyone else. How she has stayed married is beyond me.