I agree upthread that if TJ had stayed and Jill had left..Kim's situation would overall be much better in that house. IMO Kim didn't do anything wrong when she came to the house, she just doesn't know how to communicate appropriately, she tried WAY too hard to get the other women to like her, and was VERY let down when they didn't.

Jill was very disappointing when she turned to gossiping about Kim and IMO she put up a wall immediately. If Jill would have demonstrated more patience..the others would have followed her lead. If Kim weren't struggling with the basic coexistence with the HM's I believe she could better focus on her personal growth. If they were more compassionate Kim could also accept their constructive critism on a whole new level.

Remember when IV had Kim lay on the floor in the middle of group and try to throw a tantrum? That was hard to watch and I think it should have been done privately with Rhonda. The bash Kim session with Rhonda was so inappropriate. They did better with TJ which is very sad.