As far as how individual people deal with this tragedy, religion has every right to be part of that process if that is what they want.Thank you. That didn't come across in your original post. And I appreciate your saying that.
Please don't respond to this post, just drop it.
Sorry. My way of letting you know it's dropped, as far as I'm concerned. Had I not posted, there would have been the question of whether there was lingering hostility.
Anyway, sorry I went off. What I obeserved was someone being told her religion isn't valid. That wasn't your intent, so I apologize for construing it as such.