Word. The red flags are her lack of a steady job and inability to find housing.

I knew a couple Cassies at churches I attended. Nice women but just wanting to have someone else think for them (find them a job, place to live, subsidize them). They did church hop (when the elders/leadership stopped funding them) and were also inadvertent leeches.

Interesting that most people with severe physical and mental disabilities can find and retain their own apartment even in So Cal. Trust me, I know it is expensive as hell to live there: I had my own place and there were a few scary (credit cards saved my a&&) months when emergencies happened but I paid rent, utilities and student loans/credit cards (almost always) on time. For my peers and friends, if it got too expensive to be on their own, they got roommates (people of all ages that is). But I did not expect some TV show or fairy godmother to buy me stuff and give me a home (hello Lisa1 and Cassie). I left SoCal when I got married: too expensive to buy a house.