"I just want to say this, how can anyone judge a person's "character" if you do not know the person? It's just wrong. None of us have enough information to pass judgment."
I think we are on the same page - maybe I didn't explain what I meant well.
You're right that we don't know these people, but I do believe you can judge a person's character by their actions. I don't think it's fair to judge harshly by the actions in the house because 1) we don't see the whole story and 2) this is their so-called private time. No one can be at their best all of the time and under stress, emotions, insecurity we all behave badly. There is no one in the world who can stand up to that kind of scrutiny. Of course, everyone has their opinions, I don't think it's fair (or productive or good conversation or interesting) to name call and bash a person.
However, I do think that we can judge their behaviour in public - stage, blogs, interviws. This is what they are putting out there for public consumption. So, the way Marty & Ty chose to criticize JD when they had a chance - that demonstrates their character. The way Suzie made sure to let everyone know they worked it out and acknowledged her own actions - that demonstrates her character.
Now, I believe many of them have also defended JD at times. No one here is a pure villian or a pure nice guy. That's what gets me really crazy - how many of them are saying how nice Marty & MiG are. They're nice and they're petty. They're both not one or the other. MiG in 8/31 blog first talks about defending JD because he thought JD was getting pushed up against the wall and then slams his performance (everyone but JD was flawless according to MiG.) So even Mr. Nice Guy has his moments.
So, let's get back to what we really know and enjoy - dissecting, praising, shredding their singing, looks, style, voice, and how their mama dresses them funny.