>>>If she IS like me, then projections of my own motivations to her behavior could be accurate<<<

What do you think her motivations might be? Not sure if you said and I missed it, I couldn't find it. I didn't really like that she put Hank off, as it was very important for him to know (anyone around here can attest, I am very pro-Lisa...CupidCruiser is even sending me a Lisa Beanie Baby but her action here bothered me)....I posted here over a week ago that it was not fair for either Hank or Evan to go into the finals without knowing where her heart lies (I think she should have narrowed it down at least a week sooner). No one should enter into a marriage wondering if they were not the first choice....that would be a very damaging issue. I do believe she had put to rest his concerns before that date was over (based on the conversation they had before the cameras were kicked out), although not actually coming out and saying she chose him until the show. You could tell it hurt him when she didn't answer though, from the sound of his voice when he said "Lisa you have to know".

I do really like go-getter Lisa....that is the girl who has amassed such impressive accomplishments! I believe Lisa is a much tougher girl than we had previously been allowed to see (though I do think her sweet natured quality is genuine). I think that it was by design that she has been so go-with-the-flow throughout the show and mainly sat there during the critiques, looking pretty and sweet. Down to the wire now, it's too important for her to be involved more and get her thoughts and feelings across.