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"I'm Not Getting It!!"
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03-17-06, 01:24 AM (EST)
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31. "RE: I'm Not Getting It!!" |
>Okay, here's the thing. Iyanla >is NOT blaming Lisa for >Tony's infidelity. She's blaming >Lisa for creating the situation >by a) forcing him to >marry her, b) tolerating the >presence of the other woman >in her life after the >affair was supposedly over ("Bump >me once, I'll let it >slide; bump me twice, you >owe me an apology; bump >me three times, we're gonna >have a conversation."), and c) >for using it as an >excuse to turn into a >hard-hearted witch (which hurt her >and the kids more than >it did him). > >Lisa can't change the infidelity. >She can't change Tony. >She can only change her >reaction and her attitude toward >both. If Lisa was >going to throw him out >over the cheating, she should >have done it twenty years >ago, told that other woman >"you ever come near me >or my kids again and >I'm gonna yank your lungs >up through your left nostril," >and then gotten on with >her life. > >Or she should have completely forgiven >him and gotten down to >the business of figuring out >what was the issue in >their marriage that sent him >looking outward. She should have >forgiven him and moved on. > > >Instead of doing either, Lisa chose >to live a punity, punishing >lifestyle that made him pay >every day (by her own >admission to Stan and Tony) >for his affair. > >THAT is where her blame lies. > And THAT is something >she actually has the power >to change. > >~AR~ AlphaRedhead...Just wanted to applaud you...well said!!! That's "it" in a nut shell!! **************************** "I walk in my own shoes..." ****************************
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