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"Has Jill Had Surgery Yet to Remove the 40lb Tumor?"
Cuntessa 11 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Got Milk? Spokesperson"
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08-14-06, 09:47 AM (EST)
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"Has Jill Had Surgery Yet to Remove the 40lb Tumor?" |
There was such a sense of urgency on Iyanla's part when Jill was in the house concerning this so-called 40 lb. tumor. She received a lot of sympathy from the viewing public and hearts went out to her for not having health insurance and some made Iyanla the villian for making Jill cart around all that heavy baggage. Then after Jill divulged her health crisis to Miss Iyanla, they went as far as making this tumor part of one of Jill's assignments by having her research state-assisted hospitals and doctors which could perform the surgery. So what happened with this big emergency? I'm reading various posts here which mention Jill starting a new job and is battling her weight but what about the tumor? Did Starting Over blow it out of proportion or does Jill just not care about it? When Iyanla pointed her finger at Jill and said "you're a liar", I think Iyanla hit the nail on the head.
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carriem 91 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Hollywood Squares Square"
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08-14-06, 10:03 AM (EST)
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1. "RE: Has Jill Had Surgery Yet to Remove the 40lb Tumor?" |
From what she has said on web chats she is taking medication to shrink the tumor.She has done nothing to schedule surgery.Who knows if that means she was lying?You have to remember that Jill is lazy and will avoid anything difficult to deal with.I mean how fast would you remove a tumor after they discovered it?I would have gotten my surgery scheduled before I even left the gynecologist's office!
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Cuntessa 11 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Got Milk? Spokesperson"
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08-14-06, 10:37 AM (EST)
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2. "RE: Has Jill Had Surgery Yet to Remove the 40lb Tumor?" |
Is she lazy or is she scared to have the surgery? Fear, I believe, is what rules her--hence the lies and even the laziness for that matter because she is immobilized and paralyzed by fear.
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kawyar 58 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Hollywood Squares Square"
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08-14-06, 11:25 AM (EST)
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4. "RE: Has Jill Had Surgery Yet to Remove the 40lb Tumor?" |
Actually, I do believe that with Jill fear is the underlying cause for her seeming inability to deal with the tumor issue. After all, if Jill really did go ahead and have the tumor removed, then she wouldn't have any excuses why she couldn't achieve her star-struck lofty goals of "living large" (whatever that's supposed to mean). While she still carries the tumor around in her, she has a ready excuse as to why she hasn't been able to achieve her goals (I can't even remember now what they were).
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mememi 37 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Beauty Pageant Celebrity Judge"
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09-08-06, 01:39 PM (EST)
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22. "RE: Has Jill Had Surgery Yet to Remove the 40lb Tumor?" |
If I remember correctly from back then, part of the issue in delaying the surgery was also that after losing her job she had no medical insurance to pay for the cost of surgery. Though I agree, there is very likely some fear/avoidance going on as well.
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sharnina 3075 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Car Show Celebrity"
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08-14-06, 11:50 AM (EST)
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5. "RE: Has Jill Had Surgery Yet to Remove the 40lb Tumor?" |
As I've said before in another thread, the word "tumor" can be very alarming. What Jill has is fibroid tumors. Jill went to one doctor selected by the SO staff and he was the one that shot out the alarming words "forty pound tumor." He also said that Jill must have surgery right away and that it was vital and life-threatening. So Jill and Iyanla decided that Jill should seek state aid in paying for her care (even though she is not a resident of the state of California). When she applied she was told to get a second opinion - this time by a doctor appointed by the state. So this doctor determined that the situation was not as serious as the first doctor stated (in that she wouldn't die if she didn't have surgery right away). He recommended that Jill lose a significant amount of weight before having surgery. And here we are a year later wondering if Jill has had surgery for her non-cancerous fibroid tumors. And wondering if Jill has lost anymore weight. She has lost weight and is taking medication to shrink the fibroid tumors. She has not had surgery.  A Tribe Original God is good all the time and all the time, God is good.
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petmama 494 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Daytime Soap Guest Star"
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08-15-06, 12:18 PM (EST)
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12. "RE: Has Jill Had Surgery Yet to Remove the 40lb Tumor?" |
The tumor, IMO, would be far easier to safely remove after using medication to shrink it. Weight loss, too, would make the surgery safer. IMO, with less likelihood of another stroke. And, Jill's second MD discovered that the tumor wasn't life threatening enough for immediate surgery.
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Cuntessa 11 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Got Milk? Spokesperson"
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08-14-06, 01:35 PM (EST)
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8. "RE: Has Jill Had Surgery Yet to Remove the 40lb Tumor?" |
I truly don't believe S.O. played up the "forty lb. tumor". I believe Iyanla had a legitimate concern and I feel she did everything in her power to get Jill motivated to do something about it without insurance. I also believe that if Jill received health insurance right now and lost the necessary weight for surgery, she would still not have the surgery.
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mistyrose52 795 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Fitness Correspondent"
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08-14-06, 01:47 PM (EST)
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10. "RE: Has Jill Had Surgery Yet to Remove the 40lb Tumor?" |
You see, THAT is the thing that really bugs (bugged) me about SO-they start out with this BIG DEAL going on (we could sit here for days naming them), then before you know it, nothing else is said, and it's just gone to the way side, like it never happened! WHAT IS UP WITH THAT??Are they just trying to drive us crazy, make us pay attention, or do they think we're so stupid that we'll just totally forget things like a 40# tumor, a drinking problem, an internet porn site, migraines that are life-threatening, etc. I can see why so many people are getting fed up with this show! It's nerve-wracking to get so involved in someone's life, then have thoe attachments just blown out the window like yesterday's dust! Ah well, the drama of daytime t.v., eh??
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petmama 494 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Daytime Soap Guest Star"
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08-17-06, 07:08 PM (EST)
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14. "RE: Has Jill Had Surgery Yet to Remove the 40lb Tumor?" |
And, let's not forget the promise Rhonda made at some of her seminars last year, to reveal the particulars of the breakin that occurred on the 12/07/04 episode.
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GreatWhiteNorth 75 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Hollywood Squares Square"
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08-20-06, 06:08 AM (EST)
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17. "RE: Has Jill Had Surgery Yet to Remove the 40lb Tumor?" |
I think the break in was the season two break in that people have mentioned. The one that was hyped up to look like Sommer had a hand in it and then the whole thing was conviently dropped and nothing was mentioned of it again. imo
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Leandra47 6 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "American Cancer Society Spokesperson"
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09-03-06, 02:49 PM (EST)
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21. "RE: Has Jill Had Surgery Yet to Remove the 40lb Tumor?" |
I am not sure of how much is true on this "tumor" thing. Since I battle uterus problems for 3 years now, on and off with recurring cyst and such. Now since 3 months I have 2 of those uterine fibroids, way smaller than Jill has, but I am telling you in those last 3 months I have become irretable and depressed due to the fact of the pain and constant bleeding. I had a D&C 14 months ago and a fibroid was taken out then with the same symptoms. Now they are located in a different area and can`t be removed that easily with a D&C. My next appointment is in 5 days, and I am telling you I will insist on a Hysterectomy cause I can`t deal with this pain and sideeffects anymore. There are some fibroids who are located in an area where they don`t give you troubles but I can`t imagine running around with them for 10 years and not having problems, they push on your blatter or bowls and you will be running to the bathroom every 30 min or other side effects as well.
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