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heart13andrea 3 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "American Cancer Society Spokesperson" 09-29-05, 11:26 AM (EST) "I love the show but why are the life coaches so angry?" The life coaches seem especially angry this season, but Dr. Stan seems so relaxed and in the moment for everyone. He's so HOT! Don't they tell e1 that anger gets you nowhere if you don't discuss why you're angry and how to solve it? Liked the other house better. Hope Lou hits the road, what an ungrateful jerk!   Top

Subject     Author     Message Date     ID    RE: I love the show but why are the... rachel4 09-29-05 1  RE: I love the show but why are the... hunterjax 09-29-05 2    RE: I love the show but why are the... Ethereal 09-29-05 3    RE: I love the show but why are the... MissStella223485 09-29-05 4        RE: I love the show but why are the... Tookie 09-29-05 5

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rachel4 50 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Hollywood Squares Square" 09-29-05, 01:31 PM (EST) 1. "RE: I love the show but why are the life coaches so angry?" I don't think the life coaches are angry, but they are certainly are more direct and no-nonsense in their approach this year. It may be a reflection of Iyanla's kind of in-your-face approach that she exhibited in last season's episodes, but with a much more harder line. And although I am an Iyanla fan, I am not sure if I like this type approach (or intervention or coaching)in its current form. It may do more harm than good. Confronting people and tearing down their defenses with this hard-line, seemingly lack of sensitivity approach may backfire. I think more compassion and caution is needed!   Top

hunterjax 94 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Hollywood Squares Square" 09-29-05, 02:00 PM (EST) 2. "RE: I love the show but why are the life coaches so angry?" I do see the coaches being more aggressive this time around, particularly Iyanla. But I think it's required given the people. When people are resistant to the process, IV steps up her approach. I like it. I think it means she's good at what she does. I have to laugh though when she starts in with, "let me offer you this..." and then delivers a harsh criticism wrapped in a smile. The truth can hurt!   Top

Ethereal 2 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "American Cancer Society Spokesperson" 09-29-05, 04:13 PM (EST) 3. "RE: I love the show but why are the life coaches so angry?" I believe they need to be more aggressive because there is more of a time constraint (three weeks) with the couples. So it is more like "tough love". I noticed with the couples, one partner believes that the other is really the problem but as they come to find out, they each need to change in order to make the relationship work. The truth usually does hurt...that is what most of us don't "get". It's hard to be "real". The good thing is that after the hurt or really the "thing we don't want to face" ...that's when healing really takes place.   Top

MissStella223485 1 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "American Cancer Society Spokesperson" 09-29-05, 04:58 PM (EST) 4. "RE: I love the show but why are the life coaches so angry?" I have to agree with your comment about Iyanla and her "let me offer you this....then her harsh criticism as you put it. but as you said to the truth can hurt!!   Top

Tookie 9 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "American Cancer Society Spokesperson" 09-29-05, 05:06 PM (EST) 5. "RE: I love the show but why are the life coaches so angry?" Ditto on the tough love. I think it's what is needed here. Lou wouldn't listen if they didn't take him to the heart of his stuff and in a way that really shoves him in it. Otherwise, it's just talk ABOUT and Lou is so good at that.   Top

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