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"Evolutionary theory and the bachelor vs. the bachelorette"
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littlemisssmartypants 477 desperate attention whore postings
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12-12-03, 07:02 PM (EST)
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"Evolutionary theory and the bachelor vs. the bachelorette"
I know a little bit (but not a lot, so feel free to correct me)about evolutionary theory, and I think it might apply to the fact that the Bachelor relationships never work but the Bachelorette relationship did.
Men are evolutionarily predisposed to "spread their genes." Given the opportunity to date 25 beautiful women, a man is more likely to want to continue to date widely, instead of settling down with just one.
Women are evolutionarily predisposed to seek one man in whom to invest their time. A man forced to compete with other men for one woman is more likely to view her a bigger prize - one worth fighting for - and be more likely to want to be with her exclusively.
Therefore, The Bachelor fails, while the Bachelorette works.
I guess we'll have to see how Meredith does to see if my theory holds water.
N.B. Just because evolutionary theory exists, doesn't mean I think it should be that way! Lots of men are good at being loyal to one woman, plenty of women cheat. So please, don't get mad at me!
Can't wait to hear your opinions
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  Subject     Author     Message Date     ID  
 RE: Evolutionary theory and the bac... minkey 12-21-03 1
 RE: Evolutionary theory and the bac... CyberCooties 12-22-03 2
   RE: Evolutionary theory and the bac... escapedude 12-25-03 3
       RE: Evolutionary theory and the bac... CyberCooties 12-26-03 4
 RE: Evolutionary theory and the bac... Loree 12-26-03 5
   Thanks... CyberCooties 12-27-03 6
   RE: Evolutionary theory and the bac... minkey 12-27-03 7
       Worthy of Meredith CyberCooties 12-27-03 8
           RE: Worthy of Meredith forestforest 01-06-04 9

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minkey 231 desperate attention whore postings
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12-21-03, 03:46 PM (EST)
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1. "RE: Evolutionary theory and the bachelor vs. the bachelorette"
Smarty - I have wondered at the same thing and I think your assessment rings true. My feelings is that base insticts CAN be controlled and we have evolved (most of us) to learn coping mechanisms to control them. The men they choose for the Bachelor are put in a situation that really tests they're ability to transcend the animal inside (grunt, scratch) and they've proven weak and shallow. Fifteen minutes of fame and the possibility of dating a playmate for 5 of those minutes is irresistable. How sad. Stronger men would be overwhelmed with all the women and aren't inclined to be DAWs. Let's hope that Meredith finds love. I think it's true that men can be weaker in these situations. Oh, that evolution.

Mink

PS: Boys - evolution is no excuse!!!

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12-22-03, 03:32 AM (EST)
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2. "RE: Evolutionary theory and the bachelor vs. the bachelorette"
It would seem that the Bachelorette(s) have more staying power, and I'm sure Meredith wont disappoint.

I think the guys worth keeping would never appear on a show like The Bachelor(ette).

Even Trista at her own wedding seemed.... less than giddily excited, shall we say? Time will tell.


CyberCooties

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12-25-03, 09:30 PM (EST)
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3. "RE: Evolutionary theory and the bachelor vs. the bachelorette"
I hate to say it but most guys are dogs.

Women,especially attractive women are not predisposed to compete for men..Thats why when put in that position they get catty..Men dont do this ..Men are the ones having to compete and provide..This is why shows like the Batchelor are unusual and awkward in my opinion..Most of these women have never and dont plan on competing with other women to get a man..They usually have guys at their becking call..

Shows like the Batchelorette are more "reality"

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12-26-03, 03:25 AM (EST)
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4. "RE: Evolutionary theory and the bachelor vs. the bachelorette"
I guess I'm out of the loop, but does a man readily 'compete' for a woman he knows has a few guys after her?



Have a good one!

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12-26-03, 10:55 AM (EST)
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5. "RE: Evolutionary theory and the bachelor vs. the bachelorette"
I do think in most cases a woman goes on this show as the Bachelorette because she really does want to find Mr Right. Where the men are more excited about several women wanting them. So I think the Bachelorette is more likely to pick the man she thinks she will have a future with. Where the man may pick the woman he can have fun with. But I do worry about the men that go on The Bachelorette too. Men are very competitive and want to win. They may not really want to marry the Bachelorette as much as they want to beat the other men. So once the man has won, he may not stick with the Bachelorette. Trista picked Mr Sensitive that wanted to settle down. Several of the other men would not have married her.
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12-27-03, 04:00 AM (EST)
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6. "Thanks..."
Very well put / great observations!


High 5in DAW people!

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minkey 231 desperate attention whore postings
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12-27-03, 01:26 PM (EST)
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7. "RE: Evolutionary theory and the bachelor vs. the bachelorette"
I'm hoping that there is somebody worthy of Meredith! She seems like she can sort that can see through the bs... though she did think she was in love with Bob. In her defense - what she saw of Bob was sensitivity to the death of her Grandma. Little did she know that it was freaking him the hell out. He's quite the actor that piggyman. I must say again... what a freakin' disappointment Bob is. I don't think all the men are out for a pissing contest - though most seem to be. I wonder if it would be better if everyone were in there 50s???

Minkey J

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12-27-03, 07:17 PM (EST)
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8. "Worthy of Meredith"
Yes, that would be nice. A decent ending for once. Hopefully Meredith wont disappoint, we always find out about the dirt when they are on these shows, and their personalities change... ew!


Have a good one!

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01-06-04, 06:24 PM (EST)
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9. "RE: Worthy of Meredith"
I have a great deal of faith in Meredith, partly from the looks on her face when the "girls" were being big babies about voting and LeeAnn, etc. If she, Meredith, does have any odd quirks (such as, why didn't she go home for the funeral?), I think we can find the source quickly -- her family's a bit oddballish. I really think that if her mother were going to encourage Meredith to stay on the show, she shouldn't have told Meredith about the death. That could have waited -- the news, I mean. Also, since those women can't get phone calls, and since I'm sure the mother didn't have access to the house telephone number where the women were staying, CBS must have facilitated that phone call to Meredith from her mom. So, who knows what role the producers played in the phone call, in what got said, in what attitudes were encouraged? It is not beyond my imagination that CBS dangled an SUV (as a condolence gift) so the Phillips family would go easy on Meredith. YES, I AM CYNICAL. Anyway, here's to Meredith -- may she find happiness and understanding and loyalty. And good sex wouldn't be such a horrid thing to wish her, especially after Bob-Pudgy-Neck-Zit-in-a-fold-of-Skin Guiney. Where was the make-up department that day? Was he busy hitting on them?
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