>LAST EDITED ON 04-07-06
>AT 04:36 PM (EST)
>
>Oh Baxtera! I normally
>agree with you (especially your
>feedback on Kim), but I
>really believe that these ladies
>are learning some deep life
>lessons from Iyanla. Granted,
>I feel Iyanla has gone
>off the radar some with
>her hokie pokiness, they eventually
>get the deeper meaning of
>what is at the core
>of their issues. I like
>that Iyanla makes them go
>through layers of their "only
>1 issue" to see how
>they self sabotage, blame and
>stay comfortable in fear among
>other things. I think
>it takes strong measures for
>strong willed women like Jill,
>Jodi, Season 2's Kim and
>others. I don't agree
>with them telling Iyanla what
>she wants to hear.
>Iyanla is to wise to
>fall for that and I
>don't believe she needs that
>big of boost to her
>ego!

Well I look at Allison and Lisa as prime examples they really didn't learn anything or make changes but they did learn how to correctly give the answers to the final exam. It is more important to be able to question the exercises and examine where you are at and question why your doing something to fully value it than blindly follow as most of these guests do. As a result few really have any changes.