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"Do you think Kim talks too much?"
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GoodnightLittleBear 461 desperate attention whore postings
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01-18-06, 00:04 AM (EST)
 
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2. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
Yes I agree that Kim does way too much talking but Lisa, Christina, or Jill should call her on it right then and there instead of making faces and gossiping behind her back. They have been in that house long enough to know better. They had no problem telling TJ. Kim probably has no idea that she is talking so much and maybe she'll calm down but the other veteran houseguests are not helping whatsoever.
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01-18-06, 02:20 PM (EST)
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37. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
I loved it when Kim said, "Well I know you were talking about me and talking in low tones so I couldn't hear...how is that different from what I was doing?" And Christina said, "We'll have to discuss this later." If she had been honest, she would have said, "Because I was doing that, and I do anything I want."
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01-18-06, 00:15 AM (EST)
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3. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
Yeah she babbles on, but I think it's mostly nerves.... what I can't understand is how that little brat Christina has the nerve to say to Kim " As your accountability partner, I blah blah blah," but yet will not take any time to get to know this woman, and has been outright rude to her, I'm sorry, but if some little skanky ho said that to me in that tone, I would have been escorted out of the house immediately...
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01-18-06, 00:25 AM (EST)
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6. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
Yeah ~ she is talking a lot but then again what is she suposed to do at this point? She strikes me as the type that stays busy all the time, has plenty of energy, and if she had something else to do, she would. I know I'd go NUTS in a house with people I didn't know, they are busy and acting like little queen b!tches, and I don't have anything to do. I'd be going from person to person just to keep from getting bored to death. Kim doesn't seem like she'd be able to just sit in her own little corner of the world reading a book. She needs something to occupy her.
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tac_2 351 desperate attention whore postings
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01-18-06, 00:34 AM (EST)
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7. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
Yes, I think she talked too much today. I felt I was listening to someone on speed who was more interested in venting than really discussing anything. Maybe it was due to frustration but her monologue came off as pretty scattered and very difficult to follow.
Christina did the right thing by avoiding her, imo. I would have done exactly the same until she appeared more calm.
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snowflake2 1499 desperate attention whore postings
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01-18-06, 00:40 AM (EST)
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9. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
Also, she keeps repeating that her husband doesn't talk with her, and that she sometimes feels he doesn't care about her. She doesn't have a good relationship with her mom & dad. She's most likely crippled in the area of making friends because she probably didn't get the chance to learn how to make them in her childhood years because she was too busy hiding the abuse. She couldn't bring a friend home to her house of squalor, where her father was likely to go nuts. Later, she probably expected to get her emotional needs met through her husband.She probably bought into the notion of the "SO Sisterhood" and thought it was finally a safe place to vent all the emotions she's been holding in. HA HA HA HA HA!!! When she talks about herself, the housemates giggle and roll their eyes. When she tries to learn about them, they say she is "interrogating" them. Having said this, I admit I sometimes get panicky when people just can't shut up. But then again, I haven't taken myself to live in a house with 5 other women and a load of TV cameras.
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Labyrinth 1248 desperate attention whore postings
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01-18-06, 09:33 AM (EST)
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20. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
>Also, she keeps repeating that her
>husband doesn't talk with her,
>and that she sometimes feels
>he doesn't care about her. I don't think that Kim is doing anything different at the SO house then she does at home. If this surmise is true, then you can bet she follows her husband around, talking on and on and on - about herself. I imagine that Kim is walking after him saying "connect with me, connect with me!" JMO but men like a lot of cool down time and doing nothing. The harder and more complex their job is the more they want time just to do nothing. Men like to connect by holding hands and taking a walk. Or discussing issues after dinner. Or watching a television show together. Or maybe taking a shower or bath together. They don't want to listen to a bunch of idle and worthless chatter that goes on ad on and is a train to nowhere. > She doesn't have a
>good relationship with her mom
>& dad. Right, but in Kim's situation she should tell Dad you are an abusing a**hole and get out of my life; and to mom, you abandoned me and left me to be beaten and almost die - goodbye. She needs to get better mentors in her life who can serve as surrogate parents. I'm serious. This is what gay people will do when their parents reject them do their sexual orientation - they will instead seek out a supportive group of friends who can help them. Kim is trying too hard with the other HG's. It took probably a month before the others gel'ed. Instead, Kim thinks talking incessantly about herself will make friends and that just doesn't happen. Yeah, I agree she learned these patterns in childhood but it's time for her to move on and learn better ones. To make a friend - listen more Kim. 
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01-18-06, 01:19 AM (EST)
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11. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
OMG when she was talking Lisa2's ear off today, she reminded me of someone on amphetemines. I am a substance abuse counselor and her speech pattern totally mimics someone who is high on speed! I would be very surprised if this ends up being the case, but it is interesting how she can get going so fast and furious. The real clincher is that she recognizes it (remember when she said to Lisa2 something like "I know I talk too much and I might even be doing it right now and not even know that you are taking it that way"). That was paraphrased but my point is that she knew she was being too much, acknowledged it, and kept right on talking. I agree that she most likely is just letting a lifetime of stifled communication out. I still don't feel like we've seen too much emotion from her yet, but when we do, it's going to be intense. So LMDD, YES, I think she talks too much. It would drive me absolutely nuts but maybe this is what she needs right now. I hope that the ladies take TJ's advice and cut this one a little slack. I think she needs it! 
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01-18-06, 01:40 AM (EST)
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12. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
<It would drive me absolutely nuts but maybe this is what she needs right now. I hope that the ladies take TJ's advice and cut this one a little slack. I think she needs it!>So true Kattrick..I think this is what she needs right now and it seems there is just no patience for her as far as XXXtina goes, Jill might of reacted at first negatively but I think TJ helped her to have some compassion. If you haven't been able to talk for so long (Kim)..when you finally open up it would be overwhelming for anyone on the receiving end I'm sure. I think it's good she's opening up..she probably has so many F up feelings that nothing comes out just right..but at least she's talking, trying to connect with her feelings. I think they're keeping Jill around so she can help, she's like the only one (hey she grew close to TJ and she didn't have such serious issues)Jill could overlook this and grow close to her..eventually. 
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01-18-06, 04:38 AM (EST)
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15. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
OMG when she was talking Lisa2's ear off today, she reminded me of someone on amphetemines.Absolutely! It isn't that she's simply talking a lot. I have very dear friends that do and, at times it can be irritating but I love them more than this one little habit. I've been asking myself what the difference is and I think it's that she simply isn't connecting. She ignores cues that the person she's talking to is giving and the subject is, (unless it's editing) always, always, always about her. I think you could set her alone in the room with the camera running and she would be just as happy. Her talking isn't about connecting or communicating... it's about something else. It's almost like my little cousin that has a form of autism. He talks constantly but it's just chatter. It doesn't really mean anything. He has a therapist that's teaching him how to stop, listen, reflect back what he's heard, etc. I'm certainly not going to suggest that Kim has any form of autism but, there's some mechanism there that's just not clicking. There was one point in today's show where I would have just wanted to take her face in my hands and say, "stop, dear". Then try some form of meditation or something to calm her.
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01-18-06, 10:30 AM (EST)
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21. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
Kat, I agree with you, I think she is on something or going thru withdrawl of some sort. I know some pot heads when they first stop will babble on like this, and coke heads are notorious for the constant, drive you crazy babble. My opinion of Kim is that she probably isolates alot at home and now that she is with starting over house she has diareah of the mouth, it just keeps comming with no ending in sight. Christinas actions are understandable, kim just follows her around proding her, when christina is trying concentrate on her stuff she has to do. Remember Christina background, women are the competion and men are the "mark" she has a long way to go in changing her way of thinking acting and dressing, she dresses with bra straps showing, tight clothes.....Remember, hooking is a total mind f$^&, it takes years to change the thinking patterns, street lingo, and mostly the inappropriate clothing.
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01-18-06, 09:26 AM (EST)
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18. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
>The thing that caught my
>attention was that I thought
>the conversation she was trying
>to have was very inappropriate
>considering the fact that they
>were out trying to celebrate
>the fact that TJ would
>be graduating.This was what I found so unbelievable during TJ's graduating dinner. Would it have been more sensible for the group to be talking about TJ -congratulating her and discussing how far she has grown in the house? Instead Kim hijacks the entire conversation and makes it about herself. Very egocentric lady I fear. Also, if Christina and the others had issues with the talk, why not just began another conversation at the other end of the table? That table was long enough and Jill was at the other end.
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01-18-06, 09:30 AM (EST)
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19. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
Oh my goodness YES, Kim talks way too much. Hopefully they will put the ban on her to stop talking for a while. What concerns me the most is her lack of EMOTION! Very hard to connect with someone who has no emotions.
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01-18-06, 11:14 AM (EST)
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22. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
My advice to Kim (to borrow my fave phrase from Jill):
B!TCH, SHUT UP!
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01-18-06, 11:22 AM (EST)
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23. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
>I think it is so sad
>to watch, I'm sure the
>editing is making it look
>even worse..but at their dinner
>(for example) you could even
>see it in Jill's face...Kim
>was dominating the conversation. I
>hope for her sake that
>she chills a bit, doesn't
>work so hard trying to
>get Christina to like her
>(for example) cuz she's so
>not worth it anyways. She's
>not there to be friends
>with these women..she's there for
>self discovery. Is she avoiding
>feeling her feelings by focusing
>on relationships with these women?
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>
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I dont think its sad at all. Personally, i think that its the beginning of the break through for her. Again, people are so quick to judge other people. Yeah, her incessant talking may be annoying, but every woman in that house has annoying qualities. Jill is lazy, TJ is controlling and in people's faces all the time, Christina is judgmental, immature and still on the pole, Lisa is totally clueless, Lisa(new girl)is delusional about her own mistakes in life.
But, the point is Kim is new and is learning to break old patterns and become a new person. With the exception of new Lisa, she is the only woman has only been there a few days. But, Kim's situation is unique, she is isolated, her husband doesnt really communicate with her, she is an abused child which causes people to draw inward and because she is an introverted person probably has never shared her feelings with her friends at home because of fear of judgment or rejection. Now that she is in the SO house, she probably feels finally these are women that will listen to me, not judge me and try to support me because they are all exposing their vulnerabilities. Hence, whenever she gets a chance she rambles on, she just wants to be heard. Something that she has never had in her LIFE. Anyone out here judging her, why dont you imagine how it feels to be physically abused, sexually assaulted, humiliated by the man who is supposed to protect and die for you, or be abandoned by a mother who gave birth to you and see how you would truly feel. Yes, she talks, but she will learn how to vent her frustrations and insecurities in other ways in time and will be really successful. But, at least she is showing her true self unlike others in that house.
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01-18-06, 11:49 AM (EST)
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24. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
I think she does talk too much, yes, but I am willing to give her a little grace on the subject. Of course she needs approval and love from people in all forms. She has spent most of her life being smacked around physically and emotianally. All the things that have happened have made her feel (for years!!) that she literally has NO WORTH. so yes, she's going to do what she can do to connect with others and get them to like her. In her case talking is connection, and is a way to bond with people and get them to like her. I think as soon as she grows some more and they start to address all the repercussions of her abusive past, then, she can drop some of the "everybody like me!!!" attitude.And today, Christina totally gossiped about her, not vented. It was mean, and hurtful talk.
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01-23-06, 04:27 AM (EST)
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47. "Post 45 removed" |
Following up one post critical of other posters by calling out the moderators in your next one . . . is never a good idea.
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01-18-06, 11:49 AM (EST)
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25. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
YES!
Nuff said.
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Ijustsharted 518 desperate attention whore postings
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01-18-06, 12:44 PM (EST)
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29. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
Editing or no editing I got a kick out of yesterdays show when they were showing her gabbing away..... I couldnt be around someone like that. My niece is like that she follows me around and yack yack yacks. Put a sock in it. LOL
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elgin 94 desperate attention whore postings
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01-18-06, 01:03 PM (EST)
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30. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
I'm thinking it's making good old Christina have a real power trip to be followed around. Look at her snotty little face when she is being so rude. I would love to see Kim say "Screw you" and ignore the heck out of her and not talk to or about her at all. I wonder how fast Christina would start whining about how Kim is being mean to her. She is a nasty little b**** and did this with TJ too. Kim is there for help and understanding. I don't see her getting any so far.
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Ijustsharted 518 desperate attention whore postings
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01-18-06, 01:07 PM (EST)
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31. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
I think that would be a great idea! She should just be like "screw you" she doesnt need to be worried about what Christine thinks of her. She needs to focus more on getting help.
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01-18-06, 01:23 PM (EST)
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32. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
Oh I agree. Kim needs to give up trying to connect with Christina.
I wanted to slap those eye rolls and head shakes off her yesterday.
Wouldn't a woman of honor have gently said to Kim "hey, I'd love to chat but, I have a lot to do right now. Maybe we can talk later?"
The whole gossip issue was pure nonsense. Christina just can't stand for anyone to say anything about her. Where did that come from? She can prance around naked in front of people but, doesn't want anyone to talk about her. Kim needs to leave it alone and try to bond with the new girls coming in. Christina is a lost cause.
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01-18-06, 01:56 PM (EST)
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36. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
That's actually great advice that all of the HG's should be able to utilize when needed. Yea, just a good ol' screw you!! Oh but then the other HGs might feel threatened and endangered, we wouldn't want THAT now would we?
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01-18-06, 02:36 PM (EST)
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38. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
I think she is all hyped up on FEAR.She's been hearing all about how the SO house is full of love and support and she expects that to be true, only to be rejected and ignored. But Jill and Christina have one foot out the door, Lisa1 is in her own world, and Lisa2 doesn't have much to offer (so far). It's supposed to be about more than "doing your own work," it's supposed to be about supporting the other women as well. Christina could so easily have been KIND to Lisa and say, "You know, let's sit down and talk when I get home." It IS hard to talk to someone who never lets you get a word in edgewise. I think silence scares her. Also, as I've said in other threads, overtalking is a way of avoiding feelings, just as overthinking (TJ) is. It's not like poor Kim is mean or hateful. As for gossip, to me, the difference is that if you talk "behind someone's back" with good intentions, like TJ and Jill did about Lisa1, it is NOT gossip. However, if you talk behind their backs just to complain about them in a mean-spirited way, it is. "Venting" would be talking about your OWN feelings of anger, impatience, etc., not "Kim did this, Kim said that..." or "TJ is a psycho." Besides, what are these "rules" Christina was talking about? Is she the new rulemaker of the SO house?
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01-18-06, 01:33 PM (EST)
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34. "Yes, yes - a thousand times YES!!!" |
Dear mother of gawd - that girl has got to stop flapping those gums and get to work!What are her assignments? She seems to have nothing that she is supposed to be doing. Yap yap yap. She yaps about yapping. She yaps about no one listening when she yaps. She apologizes for yapping but it takes her another 30 minutes of yapping to apologize. And then NuLisa just sits there, stands there, exercises there, just nodding away, trying to be polite. When is she doing her assignments? I think Christins was a bit rude. But I also think that Jill and Christina have their goals and assignments and are very focused on getting things done. So when the newbies are just wandering the house looking for entertainment it must drive them crazy! I used to work with a guy who didn't shut up. Another co-worker said that she usually felt "like a big ear" because this guy didn't want to have a conversation - he just wanted to talk and have someone else hear his voice. You know those big foam fingers fans use at football games? I picture a big foam ear. And then I tune out because the yapper doesn't care about my feedback, they just want to yap.
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01-18-06, 01:42 PM (EST)
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35. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
yes she talks like she is all hyped up on some speed or something
I can't hardly stand to listen to her and she seems to be all shaky half of the time so what is up with that?
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01-18-06, 06:12 PM (EST)
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39. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
She kinda reminds me of my 4 year old daughter. The poor kid just talks and talks and talks. And sometimes, even when i dont mean to, I tune her out and I swear I watch a whole segment of starting over and then during commercials I tune into her again and she is STILL TALKING. But then usually she asks, "What do you think about that?" at the end of it all and Im left, slack jawed and dumbfounded.
Maybe Kim is just now able to let her inner 4 year old out or something. But regardless, talking like that and especially to someone who is doing something else when you start talking, chances are they are not really going to be listening 100%.
She is very defensive and anytime anyone talks to her she gets her back up. I also believe that she was badgering Christina especially when she was trying to connect about jacks and jackson. She then got onto the whole, "You just stopped stripping before you got in the house?" thing, which yes its true but I believe Christina was frustrated because she has finally gotten past all that and now a new house mate wont let it go.
JMO!
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01-23-06, 02:00 AM (EST)
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46. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
I see Kim as the 'Karma factor'.Just when Xtina and Jill where feeling so high and mighty,Kim came in and broke up the hoedown.
It feels good to be a spectator in these games.
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01-23-06, 01:58 PM (EST)
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50. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
Good to have you with us ellcee18! Yeah, the thing with TJ was really just a show of her errrrrrrh,acting skills, learned on the streets of Vegas.LOL And,yes,seems more like caged-raised chicks now out there free ranging and not knowing what the cluck to do.
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01-24-06, 02:17 PM (EST)
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51. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
In today's show, during group and the intro to Jodi, I'm sure folks noticed the interplay between Jill and Kim.Okay Jill is bawling her eyes out in group. She is really feeling it and what does Kim do?? She brings it all back to her. Why not just say, "I'm like Jodi, tough, independent and strong, so why don't you like me???" or maybe "Don't steal my thunder, b*tch!" Kim says she is like Jodi, but where were the tears? she had her back half turned to Jodi throughout. She also was looking up at the plasma or the cameraman during most of the group interaction even though Jodi is sitting right next to her.... Also, on her phone conversation with husband... he never finished ONE SENTENCE. Sorry but he didn't. He started to sympathize and then she cut him off, not once but three times. I'm sorry but after today, I sure don't like Kim.
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01-27-06, 07:56 AM (EST)
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56. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
>In today's show, during group and
>the intro to Jodi, I'm
>sure folks noticed the interplay
>between Jill and Kim.
>
>Okay Jill is bawling her eyes
>out in group. She is
>really feeling it and what
>does Kim do?? She brings
>it all back to her.
>Why not just say, "I'm
>like Jodi, tough, independent and
>strong, so why don't you
>like me???" or maybe "Don't
>steal my thunder, b*tch!"
>
>Kim says she is like Jodi,
>but where were the tears?
>she had her back half
>turned to Jodi throughout. She
>also was looking up at
>the plasma or the cameraman
>during most of the group
>interaction even though Jodi is
>sitting right next to her....
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>
>Also, on her phone conversation with
>husband... he never finished ONE
>SENTENCE. Sorry but he didn't.
>He started to sympathize and
>then she cut him off,
>not once but three times.
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>I'm sorry but after today, I
>sure don't like Kim.
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When the group was supposed to be for Jodi it was Jill who actually first brought it to herself - so while Kim, at some point, tried to make it about herself, so did Jill, who actually was the first to steal Jodi's thunder. As for tears, I don't put much stock in them - some people can cry at the drop of a pin and others can't - and some, like Lisa can only fake cry/vomit which is far worse than no tears at all. I think the LC should have jumped in as soon as this train wreck was starting to derail and bring it back to Jodi - as usual the LC just sat there and let it happen - they seem to enjoy the drama more than the thought of actually helping these women fix themselves.
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01-27-06, 09:52 AM (EST)
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57. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
Perhaps I saw this interaction differently --- For example, yes Jill interrrupted first, - and she apologized (something that Miss Allisham never did during her many hijacks of group). Jill also was willing to back off and not discuss and was encouraged to do so by Iyanla who is both the LC's for Jodi and Jill. More then likely with Jodi and Jill being roommates, and IV's comments, Jodi was brought in deliberately to trigger certain things in other women (just like other women were in the House at the same time to trigger each other - i.e. Jill and TJ). Now, Kim, when she brought up her "sharing" it was a "BUT I'M LIKE JODI TOO!!" bratty comment. Sorry but she is so into stalking Jill and making Jill her friend - that as soon as Jill admitted any liking or caring for the new roomie, Kim has to sandwich herself in there and say, figuratively, that Jill should like her too as she is just like Jodi. Kim hijacked the meeting to deal with her problems with Jill - not to share how she is really like Jodi. If it was about sharing then she would have had something personal to say and not have gotten into her issue with Jill by the second sentence. JMO.
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Cygnus X1 7505 desperate attention whore postings
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01-26-06, 09:47 PM (EST)
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52. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
Bumping because of a new locked thread.
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bellyButton 171 desperate attention whore postings
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01-26-06, 10:44 PM (EST)
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53. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
i don't know if anyone has mentioned this..i try to read as much as i can before i reply but could it be possible kim IS on something? antidepressant or something? Could she be manic? i know when i'm nervous and get nothing to calm me down..i talk way too much. kim sounds to me as if she's doing both sides of the conversation..her side and the person she's talking to's side with her same hand motions and how she tilts her head. she analyzes everything. and she carries that personality over onto the laundry, grocery shopping lists..which is fine..let her come and fix my place up neat..just don't talk to me when you're doing it kim. she seems to me to be obsessive compulsive defensive. and i feel sorry for her at the same time i feel sorry for the other's having to live with her.i wish the LC's would hurry up and do something for her.
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Jumbo Shrimp 1181 desperate attention whore postings
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01-27-06, 02:34 AM (EST)
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55. "RE: Do you think Kim talks too much?" |
Kim made a bad choice in latching onto Jill.
Lets see what happens when the family gets there.
Sometimes,there can be a big turn around.
Kim started off on the wrong foot and Jill will do whatever to keep her there.
When will the LCs interveen(sp?).if this keeps up, they will need substitue coaches to come in.The women,left to their own devices,this is not a good thing.
JS
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