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"TJ's warm stone massage"
starcircle 32 desperate attention whore postings
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12-16-05, 08:29 PM (EST)
 
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"TJ's warm stone massage" |
O.k. I understand the massage was a nice thing Rhonda arranged for TJ today....but the way I took it, she was trying to suggest this as an alternative for smoking or her compulsive behavior. I just find it kind of unrealistic that every time she gets anxious or wants to smoke, she should run off to the spa...that may get a little spendy.....Perhaps Allison could charge it for her.
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bagladyoo 10 desperate attention whore postings
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12-16-05, 08:32 PM (EST)
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1. "RE: TJ's warm stone massage" |
My thoughts exactly. Wish I could afford a massage every time I was anxious.
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Boots12565 195 desperate attention whore postings
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12-16-05, 10:31 PM (EST)
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3. "RE: TJ's warm stone massage" |
In my opinion T.J. looks "STONED" most of the time anyway!Peace!
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Bluewood 31 desperate attention whore postings
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12-17-05, 03:15 AM (EST)
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5. "RE: TJ's warm stone massage" |
Don't you imagine over the last two months TJ has been conditioned to expect that anything she is involved in will result in her humiliation? She was probably expecting Rhonda or the other HG's to come out from behind a curtain and point out her short comings or at least how she is not properly accepting the massage. How she hasn't found her self "bellied up to the bar" next to Allison is a wonder. Rhonda asks for their definition of anxiety? TJ should have said, "run the footage of any assignment you have given me. Now Rhonda shake off that smug look and light me up a smoke".
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sweetreet 11 desperate attention whore postings
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12-19-05, 07:55 AM (EST)
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13. "RE: TJ's warm stone massage" |
>How about Yoga or pilates? i
>think you have to be
>QUIET when your doing yoga..
>
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>She never stopped talking.. i expected
>that lady to tell her
>the point of relaxation is
>stop talking!
>
>Hey i like T.J. I see
>alot of her in me.
>i get anxious very easy
>if i have to do
>something im not comfortable with.
>( like run a register..
>i get queasy right now
>just thinking about it) even
>though i dont smoke, i
>find other ways. i go
>into the ladies room and
>chew gum and just close
>my eyes.. take deep breaths
>and take in the quiet..
>okay the restroom is a
>bad idea.. but its private,
>i know my (male) manager
>wont come in to look
>for me there...i can recollect
>my thoughts and go back
>out..when i get anxious, i
>can feel my body shaking
>or tensing up. so that
>massage looked pretty good... i
>wouldve took a deep a
>breath, and let her do
>her job. i am also
>in the process of getting
>tested for ADD. i believe
>i have it.. i have
>the signs.. i just never
>thought about it.. but some
>people have pointed it out..
>its not by power of
>suggestion either. im very disorganized
>in many things,im distracted, i
>get bored very easily... so
>i believe unless you have
>walked in TJS shoes.... TJ
>seems like a pretty decent
>person. she is truly trying
>to change.. you may not
>see it.. but i have.
>She seems like if your
>sitting down and talking to
>her, shes trying hard to
>listen. so she made a
>few comments in the beginning
>that were uncalled for.. who
>hasnt? shes only human...
>Just stickin up for T.J..
I like TJ too. I do feel that she is sincere, but the smoking is a detriment in her understanding. I know it was for me, its an escape and stops you from seeing what you need to see in the moment.I have stopped smoking and most of my anxieties have gone away, thanks to an observation exercise that I learned you can find out more about it http://www.fhu.com It may change your life. It has mine and many of my loved ones.
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Mystique 429 desperate attention whore postings
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12-17-05, 03:23 AM (EST)
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6. "RE: TJ's warm stone massage" |
Hmm I don't know guys I see your points somewhat but I know that I liked the idea and found a lava stone massage kit on the internet for $29 which she could use with her husband as one way to relax. And going on that you can add in, warm bath maybe candlelit.. maybe they have a hottub or means to get one if that will help her stay relaxed. It opens her up to alternative ways to calm herself. Will these things help her smoke less lol no probably not but if she chooses to stop smoking there are ways to keep your mind and body relaxed other than allowing the anxiety to take control until you lose it. Just a different perspective.
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Plainpeeps 18 desperate attention whore postings
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12-17-05, 06:26 PM (EST)
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11. "RE: TJ's warm stone massage" |
Poor TJ! I would have also enjoyed the Hot Stone Massage, but then come home to 3 crying babies that you don't know how to comfort, SUCK. For goodness sakes why didn't TJ just interact with ONE REAL baby. Have the mother stay right there so she knows her baby is ok, have TJ asks questions about what pregnancy is like, labor, birth, breastfeeding, etc, all these aspects of motherhood. A 6 week old infant is much different then a plastic doll that runs on batteries. ARHG I'm getting off track here. The Massage looked like it felt wonderful, I wonder what kind of stones the LMP (Licenses Massage Practitioner) was using. As an LMP myself, I've often found that people talk more when they are face-down. They are able to talk without having to actually look at anyone. Mostly I would just let people vent and get out whatever they had to say, and by the time they turn over and lay on their back, the rest of the massage would be quiet while they relaxed. Just had to throw in my 2 cents!
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Juliejo 477 desperate attention whore postings
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12-19-05, 10:06 AM (EST)
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16. "RE: TJ's warm stone massage" |
I got the warm masage but what I didnt get was the need for the three dolls who wouldnt stop crying. Was there a lesson there that I missed? How are either one of those helping TJ reach her goals?
People do not stop using tabacco until they are ready and they want too and then it might take three or four tries before they stop completely. I know I stopped smoking 10 years ago and it wasnt easy. But it was because I wanted too, not because of anything anyone said to me.
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