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PLEASE NOTE: The Reality TV World Message Boards are filled with desperate
attention-seekers pretending to be one big happy PG/PG13-rated family. Don't
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but intolerance for other viewpoints is NOT welcome and respect for other
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As entertainment critic Roger
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with me, correct me--but don't tell me to shut up. That's not the American way."
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"I am majorly TICKED OFF..."
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EMTBGRL 2514 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Survivor-themed Cruise Spokesperson"
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07-17-06, 10:04 PM (EST)
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5. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
Ever extend >yourself, as a friend, offer >a helping hand, be there >for someone when they are >in crisis...and have them STAB >YOU IN THE BACK WITH >THEIR LIES. Well, ..yes and no... I help people all the time. I also someone who believes that people are basically good. However, I also know that I have been used -- at times-- but, don't care. Sometimes I even know that someone is lying to me, in advance, but I help them, anyway. I figure if that whatever is going on that they have to LIE to me? They need more help than I can give them...and better it be ME that help them, than someone else that hasn't figured it out, and gets used, too. Sounds like you got used---Sorry. That's not fair. Dirty pool on their part. Forgive them for what they've done, just so that YOU can "move on" --and then? Cut him or her loose. It's not worth it to keep them around. Does that help? Of course, my "helping" this does NOT include "Dangerous" or "Illegal" activity. (that I know about in advance.)
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Seabisquit 408 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Daytime Soap Guest Star"
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07-17-06, 10:56 PM (EST)
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11. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
LAST EDITED ON 07-17-06 AT 11:09 PM (EST)Yes, cahaya, it is an online thing, and I have a few friends there who have offered to defend the truth on my behalf...but I asked them not to at the risk being banned as well. If I told you the name of the site...you probably wouldn't believe me...it is soooooo hypocritical of what this site supposedly stands for in the name of women. But the chick that lied about me is an A-HOLE. Am I allowed to use the 'A' word on this site...LOL. I normally would never speak about anyone in this manner or fashion in a public forum...or ever for that matter, but because of the special circumstances and absolute unfairness to me, I couldn't care less, or is it could care less? I am doing everything I can to contain myself so that I do not say her name. Although there are only a few newbies like me who post here...who actually know who she is...I will do my best to keep my mouth shut. Unless, of course, someone asks me. edited: same as before sig by sharnina
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dabo 26942 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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07-18-06, 03:32 PM (EST)
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25. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
Oh, I thought there was a banning, maybe it was just a temporary thing.
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mtopaz 2167 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Roller Coaster Inaugurator"
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07-17-06, 11:08 PM (EST)
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12. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
Seabisquit - I'm sorry that a supposed friend truly disappointed you. Yes, I have been there. Years ago, while I was in college, I worked for a small firm and basically was the executive assistant to the owner. This was the first job where I grew into a position with lots of responsibility, dealing with other firms we did work for, scheduling work crews, handling flight arrangements, doing payroll and payroll tax deductions and deposits, reading contract language, billing clients, and so on. I did the best job I could, and my boss was happy with me, said the office had never run better.Then for my last year in college, I threw myself into getting my degree and with a little financial help, stopped working at this firm. Before I left, we hired my replacement and I trained her. I thought we became friends during that process, and I certainly felt friendly towards her. After I left, I'd run into former co-workers or mutual acquaintances, and they'd say that my replacement was pointing out all sorts of mistakes I'd made, how I wasn't really any good at my job, and so forth. None of it was true, but I was furious and baffled. Why would she do that? Like you, I worried that people would believe her over me. In the end, it turned out she was in over her head, and she would make mistakes and then say it had been my fault, or I had told her to do things the wrong way. Eventually, her own lies caught up to her, because it dawned on my ex-employer that everything had worked while I was there, then I left and suddenly nothing would go right, and yet that was supposed to be my fault? Didn't add up. The lesson I learned was to know that people who really knew me, knew that the stories being spread about me didn't jive with the me they knew. The same will be true for you. Those that know you may be temporarily confused about what this person is saying about you. But they will measure that by all your past actions and see that it doesn't add up. Anger can be useful, but if you continue to be unable to calm down as time goes on, and the anger level remains high, that is bad for you and also doesn't help matters. You'll come off looking defensive. Go for a long run, bike ride, hike, or some other very physical activity. Burn off some energy and come back exhausted. After a good night's rest, you may find that while you remain disappointed and disgusted by this other person's behavior, the extreme anger will have faded and you'll feel better for it. Sig pic by JSlice
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dabo 26942 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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07-17-06, 11:44 PM (EST)
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15. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
Gosh, there's a looneytoon who managed to find her way online and upset people with her looneytoon ways?What Are The Odds!LOL Actually, I've lost track of the number of times I've seen such things happen online. Get it out of your system, SB. Shame about the banning.
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Seabisquit 408 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Daytime Soap Guest Star"
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07-18-06, 04:36 PM (EST)
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26. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
It's a new day...I am feeling just fine. And I sincerely thank all you wonderful people for your support and understanding, especially dabo for your off-line assistance...you are the best. To whom it may concern: Frustrated...no need to be...not your problem. Inappropriate forum...strongly disagree...it's perfect for me. A liar is just that a LIAR...as is a deadbeat is a DEADBEAT...this conversation is OVER. and to all the great folks here...well, I wish all of you a wonderful day. Thank you. sig by sharnina
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sweetpeach 2 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "American Cancer Society Spokesperson"
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07-18-06, 11:42 PM (EST)
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28. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
LAST EDITED ON 07-19-06 AT 02:43 AM (EST)I am the owner of the site **** (seabiscuit) is referring too, while I dont think this belongs here at all I have to state the truth because this thread was brought to my attention and I want to clear it up that Seabiscuit is LYING: She was NEVER banned at my site and while shes over here posting she was actually over there in the chatroom as she was last night as she has been for the last month, she still isnt banned there. I dont know why shes done this but she is not telling you all the truth. Heres a copy of our chat conversation today at 4:00 ESt same time as her last post: 16:07 ******] areyou here ***
<16:07 *****> Why am I getting so many messages asking why I banned you? <16:08 ****> ****: hi ...how is your day going? <16:08 *****> I am ok <16:08 *****> thanks <16:08 ******> : Because there are probably a lot of people getting in my business that I never did talk to. <16:09 ****> ok <16:10 ****> : Anyone discussing this with you is probably speaking in S's behalf. I am not going to discuss this with anyone on this board, not even S. I said my piece...I know my truth, and as far as I am concerned this issue is OVER. <16:10 *****> It confuses me why you would think that after we talked <16:12 ****> I just want to be on the site because I think it is the greatest site I have come in contact with...I have met many wonderful people here...people support one another which is all I ever did try to do with S. I was actually SHOCKED when this whole issue came up because all I ever did was try to reach out to S and be her friend, I offered to call her if she needed someone to talk to. I just do not understand and perhaps I never will, but I am okay with this...I am just going to move. <16:13 *****> ok my concern is you thinking I banned you <16:13 ****> I never did think that after we talked. Some people maybe just do not have enough going on in their lives and want the drama. i do not. I am here. I am happy. I want it to remain that way. I will follow the rules. I love the women here. That's about it for me to be 100% truthful with you. <16:14 ****> Like i told you before I am not getting into the S you thing, not my business <16:14 ****> I just was shocked with the PMs asking why you were banned <16:14 ****> no, not a problem, and even if you had banned me..it would not be because you did so with all the truthful facts...as long as there are transcripts and PM's that you can read...I have nothing to worry about and nothing to hide. The truth will prevail. <16:15 ****> That's because people like to gossip. <16:15 ****> I dont read peoples PMs I dont have access to that stuff, even as the owner I dont have it dont want it <16:18 ****> Thank you . Although the S thing did start on this board, and was a tremendous shock to me, I intend to ignore this whole thing from yesterday on...I have no desire to participate in any kind of drama. It's over. Let the past be the past...judge me on my past actions and how I behave from this moment on. I know I have nothing to be concerned about. I know who I am and what I am and for this I am proud. No problem my friend. <16:19 ****> I just want to get back to enjoying my time on this board. I hope you understand this.
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dabo 26942 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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07-19-06, 00:26 AM (EST)
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31. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
Welcome aboard, sweetpeach!Normally I regard the posting of chat convos as being in bad form and, well, hate to say it, this is one of those times. Among the things I advised Seabisquit about last night, I pointedly advised against IDing the other person involved, not by her online ID at your site (bad form) nor by her real life ID (very bad crossing the line). So, I am respectfully requesting that you edit your post, at least to the point of masking the IDs included. I understand your reasons for logging on here and making your position known, and I'm trying to not be judgmental about this; but in all honesty none of us here were ever interested in having this controversy spill over onto this site, only in supporting our friend during her trying time.
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probably clueless 5782 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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07-19-06, 01:53 AM (EST)
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38. "deeply disturbed" |
LAST EDITED ON 07-19-06 AT 01:57 AM (EST)Byte moi bitch. I may be a misogynistic, insensitive and arrogent asshole...but no way am I deeply disturbed. Handcrafted by RollDice® *Beyond help...perhaps* ed because I couldn't spell bitch right the first time
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probably clueless 5782 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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07-19-06, 01:59 AM (EST)
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40. "RE: deeply disturbed" |
You like the bite, dontcha?Given the option, yup. Handcrafted by RollDice®
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Breezy 18380 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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07-19-06, 10:41 AM (EST)
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44. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
I'm with the bug on this one.
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brvnkrz 20491 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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07-19-06, 11:01 AM (EST)
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47. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
I too agree with Buggy. *smooch* So wise, she is. A wonderful Tribe original
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probably clueless 5782 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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07-19-06, 11:04 AM (EST)
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48. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
And I'm right in line behind Knockers.No babe, I don't have a banana in my pants, why do you ask? Handcrafted by RollDice®
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probably clueless 5782 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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07-19-06, 11:11 AM (EST)
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50. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
*To person I pretend to have behind me*, "Hey! Stop pushing!" Handcrafted by RollDice®
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probably clueless 5782 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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07-19-06, 11:25 AM (EST)
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52. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
To pretend to stabalize Knockers, grabs her knockers. Handcrafted by RollDice®
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TheFabulousLurker 165 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Blistex Spokesperson"
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07-19-06, 03:42 AM (EST)
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41. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
This kind of ... stuff ... is exactly why I usually prefer to lurk.
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CouchTater 1046 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Politically Incorrect Guest"
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07-19-06, 10:42 AM (EST)
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45. "RE: I am majorly TICKED OFF..." |
Fabulous, I belong to several Yahoo groups and this kind of "misunderstanding" (to put it nicely) happens all the time and it's why I rarely log onto those groups anymore. It seems to be part of human nature that clicks form, misunderstandings happen, especially online where we can't see expressions and words could be taken in a different light than what the writer meant. However, this site is very different. I love the policy of no tolerance to personal attacks, which is what starts those kinds of messy dramas to begin with. And on this site the rules are very clear and the moderators do a great job of monitoring posts that abuse them and weeding out instigators of drama. So please keep hanging out here. And Frisky is right; we are all disturbed on this site. That's what’s so much fun! A Tribephyl creation I really enjoy the peeps on this site
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