>she had a relationship with the father of the kid
>(who split by the time the kid was born). The
>father of her baby didnt care and he was a
>deadbeat dad. She had the kid and raised him alone
>as a single mom for the kids whole life. So
>the only speculated guesses we can make on her life
>at that age is that she was in a relationship
>with someone that obviously didnt care about her or what
>happens, but still had a kid with him.

How do we know that? We don't know if he was a good guy who freaked out at the prospect of having a baby before he was ready, we don't know if he's truly a turkey who heartlessly dumped Jeanette because he didn't care, we don't know if they planned this baby together and circumstances caused him to run off and leave Jeanette bitter... there are many possibilities. The majority of 19-year-olds in the 1980's aren't always ready to think rationally to do the best thing in a tough situation.

>Having a baby as a result of stupidity is a different
>story. if theres a kid then stupidity is rewarded
>by people who feel sorry for them. They are rewarded
>by recieving more breaks and special treatment than
>those that are smart enough to not have a baby.

Again, we don't know the circumstances of Jeanette's situation at the time so we can't pass judgment. People make mistakes all the time, some worse than others, but to label someone a slut simply because she's 19 years old is an injustice.

I do agree that she was way out of line to try and use self-pity as a single mom to a 13-year-old to survive on the boat. Age is irrelevant, really.

>I really dont think a 32yr old with a 13yr old daughter
>(do the math to see what a slut she was)

Ok just take a look at this statement. You're implying that she's a slut because of her age. Would she be less of a slut if she had the baby at 25 instead of 19 and the father still took off on her and the child? That's why I spoke up.

"What's wrong with her?"
"Oh, it's gonna blow up, dude... in 5 minutes, dude. It's gonna hit the (bleep) ceiling."
"It is?"
"Oh yeah." (maniacal laughter)
Anthony (talking to Adrian) on LC, Oct. 9/01