I'm not a fan of these reality dating shows, either. But I had to see what this hoopala was all about, so I taped the finale and the 'after the rose' thingy, and watched this morning.

I agree with what most of you have said. This show sets up the last 3 or 4 people up for nothing but heartache and humiliation. Not to mention the stress of feeling that, after being wined and dined by a national television network, they have to 'pull their end' and do the deed-fall in love, propose, live happily ever after, etc.

Who in real life does that? How many of us met an amazing person at an adventurous location, was wined and dined at someone else's expense, took tours, went on locations that were off the map, felt the romance of the moment, then jumped into a life-long relationship? Relationships that last are HARD! They don't start out easy, and they don't end easy! And the hardest part is what happens in between!!

IMHO, this is THE fakey-ist show on TV! And the fact that there are people putting their hearts, emotions, and a THREE YEAR OLD CHILD on the line, just sickens me.

I never saw the other seasons, so I have no one to compare Jason or the other girls to. But just from seeing him today, I agree that he is in love with love, and thinks from his nether-regions instead of his brain OR heart!! And the heck with the kid. He comes off as an amazing dad, but you don't put your child through that many relationships if you really care about them! SORRY! But time to grow up, get your act together, take your time, and maybe even WAIT until your son is in high school and can fend for himself before you even think about getting this deeply involved again!!!!