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iyanlarox 188 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Blistex Spokesperson" 10-31-05, 01:51 PM (EST) "Jessica" Is Jessica going to cry throughout her tenure in the SO house? She, at times, is even more immature than Lisa. I feel her loss but she giggles and then cries - she seems undefined and needs to quit blaming her dad for remarrying for her not being central drama queen. It is uncomprehensible to fathom the unnecessary loss she sustained - but tears all the time do not resolve anything. And nice influence TJ - now Jess is a smoker!!   Top

Subject     Author     Message Date     ID    RE: Jessica KellyBabyNC 10-31-05 1    RE: Jessica iyanlarox 10-31-05 2        RE: Jessica BBH101 10-31-05 3            RE: Jessica iyanlarox 10-31-05 4            RE: Jessica Redbud 10-31-05 10                RE: Jessica rookwood 11-02-05 15  RE: Jessica hawkfrog 10-31-05 5  RE: Jessica iyanlarox 10-31-05 6    RE: Jessica hawkfrog 10-31-05 7        RE: Jessica iyanlarox 10-31-05 8        RE: Jessica cozyk 10-31-05 11    RE: Jessica Labyrinth 10-31-05 9        RE: Jessica smartypants 11-02-05 13  RE: Jessica bentherdunthat 10-31-05 12  RE: Jessica sowhat 11-02-05 14

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KellyBabyNC 17 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Got Milk? Spokesperson" 10-31-05, 03:00 PM (EST) 1. "RE: Jessica" 4 years of such severe mourning is not natural. Hopefully she'll "get fixed" & graduate so someone with more serious issues can get help.   Top

iyanlarox 188 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Blistex Spokesperson" 10-31-05, 03:47 PM (EST) 2. "RE: Jessica" I agree! I actually find Christina more mature than Jess. Mind you - I know very little about her. Don't they realize they are on television and crying is a weak?   Top

BBH101 32 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Beauty Pageant Celebrity Judge" 10-31-05, 02:58 PM (EST) 3. "RE: Jessica" Speaking from experience, everyone grieves at their own pace and should not be expected to just be forced to "get it over with." As far as the crying, cry as much as you need to! If you suppress one emotion, it isn't long before you suppress them all. If you don't show your pain, you won't recognize the joy. I was not allowed to cry when my mother died while being married. I was told it was a sign of weekness by my husband. Because emotions were stiffled, it wasn't long before all emotions were turned off. Jessica needs the time and space to grieve without a time clock on her. So she crys. Go ahead and cry Jessica! Let the healing begin!   Top

iyanlarox 188 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Blistex Spokesperson" 10-31-05, 03:01 PM (EST) 4. "RE: Jessica" Sorry I did not mean to disrespect loss. I was wrong and thank you for correcting me. I don't know loss and am a little naive - and tears were a sign of weakness typically. I guess it is just hard to understand what she is saying when she is always in convulsions crying so hard -   Top

Redbud 573 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Reality Show Commentator" 10-31-05, 03:41 PM (EST) 10. "RE: Jessica" >I was not allowed to cry >when my mother died while >being married. I was >told it was a sign >of weekness by my husband. >Because emotions were stiffled, it >wasn't long before all emotions >were turned off. You were not "allowed" to cry??!! Are you serious? And you listened to him? My husband would NEVER dream of telling me when I'm allowed to cry. He could try...but he would be the one to end up crying if you catch my drift! As for Jessica's crocodile tears....they are, shall we say "made for television".   Top

rookwood 350 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Cooking Show Host" 11-02-05, 09:49 AM (EST) 15. "RE: Jessica" Amen to that - no one has the right to tell you that you CAN'T cry. I can't believe you would tolerate this. How can you two have mutual respect and friendship and compassion for one another if you're not "allowed" to cry when you need to? That's borderline abuse to me. At best, it's damned insensitive and controlling.   Top

hawkfrog 43 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Beauty Pageant Celebrity Judge" 10-31-05, 03:09 PM (EST) 5. "RE: Jessica" Jessica can make her own smoking decisions... That being said... and being someone who lost their mom at 24... I say go Jessica... cry cry cry ... get it out... she's never been able to before...   Top

iyanlarox 188 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Blistex Spokesperson" 10-31-05, 03:11 PM (EST) 6. "RE: Jessica" don't get me wrong - jessica is a lovely woman. she will go far - but get some backbone and quit crying. her sister today sounds like an airhead.   Top

hawkfrog 43 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Beauty Pageant Celebrity Judge" 10-31-05, 03:14 PM (EST) 7. "RE: Jessica" No offense to you at all... at all ... at all... so please don't take this wrong... But I really think that it takes more backbone to feel your feelings and allow them to come out than to just "suck it up"...   Top

iyanlarox 188 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Blistex Spokesperson" 10-31-05, 03:17 PM (EST) 8. "RE: Jessica" unless you are under 99 pounds do not wear a g string.   Top

cozyk 86 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Hollywood Squares Square" 10-31-05, 06:56 PM (EST) 11. "RE: Jessica" It's not what they call you. It's what you answer to. I don't see any sign of her NOT letting out her feelings. She does it constantly.   Top

Labyrinth 1248 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Politically Incorrect Guest" 10-31-05, 03:20 PM (EST) 9. "RE: Jessica" I don't see crying as weakness. Has Jessica's sister processed her mom's death better then Jessica? But her sister is 8 years older then Jessica - has a husband and two children, whereas Jessica's life was still revolving around home and going to college with no other significant person in her life (i.e. boyfriend, husband, lover) to provide support. Her sister admits that she "never cries..." well, that's really rather sad. One day she may need those tears if she ever lost her own child, or watched her husband die of a heart attack, or whatever grief she has to work through. She, in turn, teaches this stoic behavior on to her own children. While Jessica was crying, her sister never reached out to her. Even to hold her hand. There were no tears in her eyes being held back. I got the feeling the woman didn't even want to be there, and I noticed that Rhonda never interviewed the sister by herself, which she did with Tess' husband. Nor did Rhonda ever delve deep to find out what she felt sister wanted to say. According to one of the earlier news articles written by the reporter who lived with the family, this is the same sister who now calls Jessica every night in place of their mother's phone call. I don't understand the family dynamics going on here.   Top

smartypants 63 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Hollywood Squares Square" 11-02-05, 05:19 AM (EST) 13. "RE: Jessica" I will never begrudge someone their grief and for however long it will take... However... the family dynamic is ridiculous.. the father has been looking for a replacement for his wife all along, when she died it was an opportunity for him to become close with his kids and he didnt. The Older sister is not his child.. and that may have something to do with Jess's relationship with her... she also hit therapy and support groups immediately after her mother's death so she has gone thru her grieving process AND Jessica is a flat out drama queen. She is not a lovely person, I have met her and she acted like a priviledged snot. Are you sik of her grinning into the camera as she describes her pain?? yeah, well she is loving this attention.. and to top it off she is an insincere, mean , sneaky b**** to her other roommates. keep watching her, she in conniving   Top

bentherdunthat 518 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Reality Show Commentator" 10-31-05, 09:39 PM (EST) 12. "RE: Jessica" All I can say is that with all the crying going on, they should have built the SO house on higher ground.   Top

sowhat 251 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Network TV Show Guest Star" 11-02-05, 08:36 AM (EST) 14. "RE: Jessica" Naive Jessica was spoiled by her mother who cannot come back no matter how angry Jessica gets. She is pissed off at the world. Her sister knows it and wants her to get on with her life. But Jessica cannot move ahead because she has no life, no job or family to keep her occupied. For several years she has been drowning in self-pity, hidden away in her dark apartment. Prozac, a job, and a social life is a start.   Top

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