LAST EDITED ON 11-05-03 AT 12:29 PM (EST)I think that when you take the fine print disclaimers thta ran at the end of the show:
Some participants were paid in connection with their appearance.
and
Participants may have consulted with producers regarding their choices and decisions.
And then combine these with the fact that at least one of these guys has an actor's resume and web site, I think this is a clear indication that at least some of these people are playing a part on the show.
Also I think that probably the producers are limiting the field of guys that she can kick off each round.
Based on these disclaimers it does not seem that this is a "true" reality show, but is at least partially scripted.