>>> By the way. Brendon is a horrible boyfriend.I seem to recall that during Brendon's season, his old girlfriend talked about what a control freak he is, and how he leaps to be in love.
I've noticed that it's very easy for Brendon to say "you're the love of my life" ... This puts him in that small group of guys who've figured out you can do well with women if you speak the language of true love and "show your feelings."
Then after Brendon says it, he proceeds to be a self-centered butthole who doesn't change his position. Then Rachel cries because the only path back to Brendon's good graces is to say she's sorry.
Mind you, 10 times out of 10 she is behaving ridiculously, so that moderately cancels out Brendon's inability to compromise.