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"In Response to your Posts..."
Miss_Situation_Man 3 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "American Cancer Society Spokesperson"
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05-02-06, 12:00 PM (EST)
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Hello again! This is Nikai aka Miss Situation Man. (I posted a message last night, so for those of you who haven't read it you can go to the subject Niambi's phone call and read my post.) I just wanted to respond to the few response posts that I've recieved to my original message. To all that gave me positive feedback and said that I am better off with Situation Man...you are sssssssoooooooooooo right. And to those who said that I am just as confused as Niambi...you are sssssssssoooooooooo right. But, I need to make a correction...I WAS as confused. And to those who said that I was stupid for taking him back. Yes! I agree, 100%. But, I am realizing that I just neeed myself. To be honest Situation Man and I were in the process of "starting over" again when I kicked him out. He was doing everything right. Making sure that I was comfortable mentally, emotionally and spiritually. Pulling out the flowers for no specific reason. Just to see me smile. But one morning I woke up a realized....this is not enough! Because I will always and forever wonder if he is lying. I will always wonder if he is cheating. I deserve to be with someone who is content with being with me. And I know in my heart that there will ALWAYS be another Niambi...even if they do get back together. THERE WILL ALWAYS BE ANOTHER NIAMBI! Now, I've also had a post that said that we are both still tagging along with Mr. Situation Man because of the fact that we are in acting class together. Good point and I totally hear ya! But, the thing is this. I am an aspiring actress and I have been blessed to find one of the best acting coaches in Florida. I've been going to classes for 2 years and I'm not going to stop going to this class because of him. He's destroyed me enough and I wont let him push me around mentally. I will not give up any more of my dreams or goals due to the fact that he is in that class. And to be honest, this class has been very therapeutic and I've made the best friends ever, who are very supportive of me and who have my back! Ms. Niambi, however, might have a problem with coming back to class. Last night, all three of us were in class and she left about 15 minutes before class ended. When I was walking to my car to leave, I saw her sitting in her car looking for Mr. Situation Man. Tsk, tsk, tsk. I think Niambi is going right back into the "situation" that has her head so messed up in the first place. As for me, this time I am really moving on. Like Niambi, I am a loner and am more to myself, but unlike Niambi I am not going to isolate myself into not healing. I am going to open my heart and let my friends in who care about me and support me. Now... ABOUT THE SHOW: I enjoyed today's show. The funny thing is that when Iyanla asked Niambi what she wanted to learn from being on the show, Niambi replied that she wanted her self-respect and basically wanted to find her way out of this "situation", yet 4 months after filming this episode, she is sitting in a dark parking lot waiting to talk to Mr. Situation Man. Does that make any sense to you? I didn't think so. Oh and one more thing...The guy that she is talking to on the phone IS NOT, I REPEAT, IS NOT Mr. Situation Man. The reason I know this is 1.) I had been with this man for almost 3 years so I know what he sounds like on the phone, 2.) His voice is extremely nasal. The man on the phone had a low, baritone voice, and 3.) Mr. Situation Man is from New York and the man on the phone had a little country twang. So, PLEASE DO NOT BELIEVE EVERYTHING YOU HEAR ON THE PHONE. It's not him! To be honest, I think it may be one of her friends. And I have a question, don't you need to sign some kind of consent form agreeing that you are O.K. with the fact that you (even your voice) is on a T.V. show? I may be wrong, so please correct me if I am. Mr. Situation Man didn't even know she was on the show. The reason I know this is because he was still living with me when we were flipping through channels and saw her. Believe me ladies. When I say his jaw hit the floor, I mean his jaw hit the floor! So what is the bottom line? Not everything about Niambi is as it seems. But as you continue to watch the show, you will see what I mean. Until next time. -Kisses
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