A friend sent me a link to an interesting website that has a theory that explains so much, and I have been tempted to post it here but I don't want to ruin the show for anyone. If you want the link please send me a PM. Be warned you won't see the show the same way-I'm a bit sad about that and sort of wish I didn't get sucked into the site.
Now after all those disclaimers someone will probably tell me the link was posted here already 

This is really not a ruse to get red wavy flaggies, I promise!