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standinmytruth 0 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "New Member"
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05-08-06, 11:15 PM (EST)
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6. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
LAST EDITED ON 05-09-06 AT 08:43 AM (EST)LAST EDITED ON 05-09-06 AT 02:02 AM (EST) i agree but i don't know if ballroom dancing is the answer either. the goal is "sentuality" not "sexuality" there are so many cultural dances that enable woman to express their souls. dancing for yourself not an onlooker. also, when did strippers start calling themself exotic dancers? hell, that hoaky "tap on in to the well" dance and song was more expressive than the exotic (aka stripper) dance. TAP TAP TAP TAP TAAP INTO THE WELL OF LIFE....remember how Cassie got up and did her freesylin' dance? I was for her 2nd graduation and 3rd makeover (she has since had one more makeover and might get a 5th makeover when she leaves again). I think sommmer's makeover should be giving her the boa and a tube of trashy red lipstick.
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JustBNMe 526 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Reality Show Commentator"
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05-08-06, 10:31 PM (EST)
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3. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
Sommer trying to get in touch with her sensuality and sexuality makes me wanna hurl. My boyfriend said it's almost enough to turn a straight man gay. Sommer looks totally within her element when she is sleazing around. She takes to it like a monkey to a banana.
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Twinkles 324 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Cooking Show Host"
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05-09-06, 01:25 AM (EST)
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8. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
I don't understand her issues. She looks very comfortable with sensuality to me. And I didn't understand the exercise either. She doesn't seem like a wallflower who needs coaxing away from the garden's protective wall. She had one negative thought and then she was into it? Well who wouldn't have at least one negative thought doing sexy dancing facing the mirror? How repressed are they saying she is exactly? I'm not seeing it. When they said she was going to a sensuality expert I thought she was meeting with another therapist type to sit and talk like (risking flashbacks here) Jodi did. I think the hip-hop dance and this step slide dance thing were really just trying to get her to feel sexy and enjoy that. If she had a problem jumping to sex before then these approaches seem like they'd just be too sexual. I hoped today they would actually explore senses with music, taste, smell, visual imagery, textures, etc. I don't know how it would work exactly but it wouldn't be just thinking about her body and not so sexual and she could practice having pleasant experiences using all her senses that don't rely on her body size. I thought sensuality had to do with that kind of stuff.
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banks 8 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "American Cancer Society Spokesperson"
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05-09-06, 04:11 AM (EST)
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10. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
I totally agree that these "sensuality" exercises are bogus. You don't have to act sexy to be sensual. That's always about the way you think.
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Lanna42 263 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Network TV Show Guest Star"
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05-09-06, 05:32 AM (EST)
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11. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
I defended the HIP HOP dance lesson because I felt it was the kind of dancing done by someone Sommers age.But this deal with the Exotic Dance "instructor" (yuck) was demeaning and gross.That woman looked as if she just fell off her pole and not in a sexy way.Are their experts on sensuality? Really? People get PAID for that?Strippers know how to ACT SEXY.That's what brings in the bucks.I'm not sure it really has anything to do with feeling sensual.To me sensuality is more about confidence,body awareness and trusting the person your with.
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Lanna42 263 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Network TV Show Guest Star"
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05-09-06, 10:46 AM (EST)
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15. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
Pole dancing is a Craze?? Hmmmmmmm Must not be in touch(pardon the pun)with this new trend and I don't really want to be.That is really disheartening and gross to think about.How many dumpy,bored,out of shape housewives are driving this new "trend"?By spinning around with feather boas on poles?Have people gotten that desperate in their search for the next erotic thrill fix?Yuck.I cannot imagine anything to help Sommer repair the disconnect she has between mind and body caused by her eating disorder better than plain old exercise.Poles belong in firehouses and with flags hanging from them.Feather boa's belong in the dress up trunk with the flapper Halloween costume.Strippers belong wherever strippers go and I don't mean as "dance instructors" for impressionable young women.And call me old fashioned but exploring ones sensuality belongs ummm behind closed doors with a good bottle of wine and whomever.You can't really do THAT on camera.Well........you CAN but yuck.Cat Dukes?
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EMTBGRL 2513 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Survivor-themed Cruise Spokesperson"
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05-09-06, 11:25 AM (EST)
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16. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
How many dumpy,bored,out of shape housewives >are driving this new "trend"?By >spinning around with feather boas >on poles?Have people gotten that >desperate in their search for >the next erotic thrill fix?Yuck.Four words: "Carmen Electra's Striptease Workout." Yeah. It's a craze. (or was?) There's a whole CD set for someone, anyone interested in doing this at home. I think the key to that, though is AT HOME. I have no problem with "dumpy, bored, out-of-shape housewives" (or anyone else) working on their sex lives at home. The problem is that Sommer is NOT a housewife wanting to workout and spice up her sex life with her partner/ husband, whatever. Sommer is a young woman who wanted to feel more comfortable in her own skin (supposedly). What would be wrong with Jazzercise? You still have to work out the same negative thoughts of looking at yourself in workout clothes/ leotards if there is a mirror. For that reason, a lot of dance-workout studios have removed the mirrors (which I personally think is bad for form--) My problem with this are two-fold: 1. "Sexuality" and "Sensuality" are NOT the same. 2. There are FAR more appropriate ways to address sexy dancing and body image issues than Cat Pukes and her Striptease training. I cannot imagine anything to help >Sommer repair the disconnect she >has between mind and body >caused by her eating disorder >better than plain old exercise.Poles >belong in firehouses and with >flags hanging from them.Feather boa's >belong in the dress up >trunk with the flapper Halloween >costume.Strippers belong wherever strippers go >and I don't mean as >"dance instructors" for impressionable young >women.And call me old fashioned >but exploring ones sensuality belongs >ummm behind closed doors with >a good bottle of wine >and whomever.You can't really do >THAT on camera.Well........you CAN but >yuck.Cat Dukes?
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phlinky 75 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Hollywood Squares Square"
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05-09-06, 02:05 PM (EST)
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20. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
That was my point in my earlier post. Why didn't they just let Christina do what she does best? IV was so busy getting her off the pole, that they are trying to put Sommer on it.
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EMTBGRL 2513 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Survivor-themed Cruise Spokesperson"
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05-09-06, 01:47 PM (EST)
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19. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
> >> >>My problem with this are two-fold: >> >>1. "Sexuality" and "Sensuality" are NOT >>the same. >>2. There are FAR more appropriate >>ways to address sexy dancing >>and body image issues than >>Cat Pukes and her Striptease >>training. > >Hi EMTBGRL, Hi!!! The whole coaching in sensuality >is exploitative and demeaning to >Sommer. Agreed! I also don't like the message it sends to women watching the show. It's like asking, "Do you have low self-esteem and a negative body image?" (head nodding) Answer, "Great! We can help you by teaching you to sexy dance with a feather boa!" ::crickets chirping:: Instructor Insisting, "No, really, we CAN help you this way." Continues, "When you feel like a stripper, you will feel better about yourself." --My reaction, "I'm sorry, HUH?" I am not dense, and I don't follow this logic at all. I think the fact that I don't follow this logic PROVES that I am not dense! Also,--Why not work on something that might BE sensual instead of sexual? I do not see the two as synonymous. Heck, imho a bubble bath with an aromatherapy candle burning, and nowhere to be, can be sensual...but, I DEFINITELY do NOT want to see THAT! Another >bizarre SO "expert" to add >to the list. I believe that's why they call Los Angeles "La La Land." Now where can >I find this Carmen Electra >CD you speak of? It's a set and probably sold in any large music/ video shop would probably have it in their "Workout" section. Or, -- possibly order on the Internet? Try "Google" --I'm guessing. Good luck! >
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Lanna42 263 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Network TV Show Guest Star"
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05-09-06, 02:07 PM (EST)
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21. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
Thanks for the referral EMTBGRL.The WORKOUT section.......why didn't I think of that?Why working out and striptease routines are practically synonymous.There's probably a world of (porn) I mean workout routines to be had and I've been oblivious to them all.How did my innocence remain intact all these years?Oh right...SO wasn't around to corrupt my budding female adolescence.What a shame.And I could have been a consummate pole dancer by now.I had so much to GIVE to the world!Now if I can just get those images of Sommer and Cat Pukes out of my brain.Carmen Electra,cancel my other plans.I've got a date!
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Lanna42 263 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Network TV Show Guest Star"
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05-09-06, 02:42 PM (EST)
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23. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
Carmen UNLIKE the hapless viewers of SO has nothing to fear I assure you! She won't be watching(although there's a thought)and I won't be filming my forays into sensuality. Or workouts,or striptease or whatever you want to define it as. The world is safe for now and okay probably for good.No bubble bath shots or stripping of Jodi or Christie please.My colorful world of sexual fantasy doesn't need to add that to it's repetoire.Now or ever!!Been fun chatting with ya EMTBGRL.
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EMTBGRL 2513 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Survivor-themed Cruise Spokesperson"
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05-09-06, 02:47 PM (EST)
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24. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
Ditto that! (all of it)
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Labyrinth 1248 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Politically Incorrect Guest"
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05-09-06, 02:50 PM (EST)
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25. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
>Four words: >"Carmen Electra's Striptease Workout." Six words: Did not donate services to SO This cheap show - that can't even offer decent "prizes" has to offer anything they can get from local businesses that want their 10 seconds on national television (i.e. Jenny Craig, the bankruptcy lawyer, the workout guys, Curves etc...) >What would be wrong with Jazzercise? Was an 80's craze and is not currently hip with the young stay-at-home teen and college age crowd that SO has been trying to pull for ratings. Let's see does the Jerry Springer crowd want to watch fake striptease or Jazzercise? Sommer, as well as Christie, has deep issues with being FAT, eating and their bodies. Anyone who had to opt for gastric bypass needs to have professional help and not the looney-tunes that SO likes to pull out and parade. JMO. Sometimes you have to wonder what type of sick humor Dr. Stan has that he wants to see Sommer or Christie gyrating on a pole with a feather boa....
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petmama 494 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Daytime Soap Guest Star"
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05-09-06, 05:41 PM (EST)
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26. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
There's nothing at all sensual about Sommer dry humping her hip hop dance instructor. Or, slinking forward while running her hands all over her body. B/M could've saved a bundle of money by bringing Sommer in at the beginning of the season and having Christina teach her "exotic" dancing.
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daylily 60 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Hollywood Squares Square"
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05-09-06, 06:51 PM (EST)
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28. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
What happened to this child to think of herself as ugly? The world is full of big people small people etc... Get the h*ll out of LA and find something real. Not smoke and mirrors. If you are not one of the pretty people, go to Cleveland, it's always dark and cold there. Swimsuite weather is only six weeks long "if you are lucky". Everything we do here is inside and under the covers! IMHO
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cowscomehome 21 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Got Milk? Spokesperson"
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05-10-06, 09:13 AM (EST)
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33. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
Hey Daylily, Thanks for the great laugh. I loved what you wrote. ;o)
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daylily 60 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Hollywood Squares Square"
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05-11-06, 05:15 AM (EST)
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37. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
Thank you cowscomehome. I'm standing in my truth, which is usually about two feet of snow.
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EMTBGRL 2513 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Survivor-themed Cruise Spokesperson"
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05-09-06, 08:05 PM (EST)
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31. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
why would Sommer need >THIS particular type of dance >lesson other than to try >to make us blow chunks >simultaneously NATION-WIDE??? Hey! It's the Starting Over free weight loss diet plan! >Puleez pass the pepto, pronto!!! BBLLEEECCCCCHHHHHH.... Yeah! Pass the pink stuff! Maybe Pepto Bismol is the next SO sponsor? > >
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standinmytruth 0 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "New Member"
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05-10-06, 01:25 PM (EST)
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34. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
Why did we spend the first half of the season trying to help Christina NOT be a stripper and we are spending the second half encouraging Sommer to be one? Sommer should be a Woman of Dishonor?
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standinmytruth 0 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "New Member"
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05-10-06, 07:44 PM (EST)
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36. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
i felt bad for sommer last season and horrible for her this one.
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beckettrep 814 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Fitness Correspondent"
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05-19-06, 10:00 AM (EST)
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40. "RE: Sommer's Sensuality Workshop with Cat Dukes the..." |
SlummerSmiles trying to dance sexy - YUK
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