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Femme 3621 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Thong Contest Judge" 04-06-05, 11:35 AM (EST) "Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Dearest Debutante Kelly, You are deplorable. You are dysfunctional woman in a dysfunctional relationship with a less-than-stellar but otherwise normal guy. I just have a couple bullet points for you: I didn't hear Ron tell you to shut the eff up, and neither did you. You are as bad as my mother. I could tell her that I didn't wash the dishes, and she would hear, "I hate you, you hag." Don't reflect your faults onto others, and listen to what's actually being said. If you had spent more time being supportive, Kelly is Love, you would have said things like "Come on honey, you're doing great!" or "You can beat that outta shape Boston boy, you're a stud!" During my two-mile runs, which I was admittedly not that great at, I wanted to hug the supportive people who told me I was doing well and kill the asshats who told me I wasn't going to finish in time, to step it up. Sometimes, people get frustrated, and they will ask you to "chill out" or "shush now." To retaliate by saying, "You are a redneck, you are a piece of trash," elevates the whole situation to something far uglier than one person being a little stressed and asking (essentially) for you to be quiet if you aren't going to calm him or her down, or support him or her. Criticism based on character traits and behaviors is one thing, and it's understandable when a frustrated, stressed, or thwarted partner wants to let you know that you are in the wrong, but to corrupt the relationship by making a broad statement like, "You are a piece of trash," well, that's just off-limits in my book. It's not helpful, and it's indicative of your actual feelings for your partner. If you had said that to me, you would be immediately excluded from my life forever. That, or I would punch you in the face. Telling your partner that you are "better than" them for not pointing out all their flaws is... wait for it... pointing out one of their flaws. It's also catty, unbecoming, and completely hypocritical. You should see your ugly, ugly face when you were gloating like you were last night. Ugly. That's the only way to say it. Ugly Ugly Ugly Kelly-who-thinks-she-is-Love. Treating your partner like dung at the end of this last leg was also very ugly. Be upset if you need to be, take a moment to calm down, sure. That's understandable. However, Kelly-starring-as-Love, when your no longer stressed-out and frustrated partner reaches out to reassure you (and himself) and tries to be gentle with you (even after you showed your true colors - which are ugly, like puce and baby-caca yellow), don't act like such a shrew. Also, I call your bluff. I don't think you are as wholesome and righteous and caring as you claim to be. I challenge you to prove it. Finally, substituting your name with "love" in any case is awfully bold. Perhaps "Kelly" is more synonymous with "wretch" or "immature" or "deluded." I hope you can draw from these bullet points (even just one would be an improvement) and at least make an honest effort to attempt to be the person you claim that you are. Your actions are in complete variance to your words, and you are now the posterchild for people who think they are morally-superior, but who really are quite the opposite. As you are now, you are an amazing contradiction, not to mention disappointment. Love,Femme   Top

Subject     Author     Message Date     ID    RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... nailbone 04-06-05 1    RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... udg 04-07-05 28  RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... Dakota 04-06-05 2    RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... nailbone 04-06-05 3        RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... Femme 04-06-05 5            RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... ginger 04-06-05 7            RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... warp_core breach 04-06-05 9                RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... MissMyth 04-06-05 11  and... Breezy 04-06-05 4  RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... ginger 04-06-05 6  RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... choochoo 04-06-05 8  RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... minitroll 04-06-05 10  RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... waldo555 04-06-05 12    RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... nailbone 04-06-05 13        RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... ginger 04-06-05 14            RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... choochoo 04-06-05 15                RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... packrat 04-06-05 16                    RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... watermelon 04-07-05 31        RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... drtantalum 04-07-05 27  RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... Drive My Car 04-06-05 17    RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... HistoryDetective 04-06-05 18        RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... hunniebunns 04-06-05 20  RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... Oscirus 04-06-05 19    RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... hunniebunns 04-06-05 21        RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... Oscirus 04-06-05 22        RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... Dakota 04-06-05 25  RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... Desire 04-06-05 23    RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... trudy 04-06-05 24  RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... Jinxie 04-06-05 26  RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... anotherkim 04-07-05 29    RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... bostonrobfan 04-07-05 30  RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... nailbone 04-07-05 32  RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... KeithFan 04-07-05 33    RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Mora... watermelon 04-07-05 35  Couldn't agree more! mtopaz 04-07-05 34

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nailbone 27263 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-06-05, 11:40 AM (EST) 1. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Amen. And wasn't that brilliant fore-shadowing on the producers part to start the episode with all that Corinthians, "substituting my name", "Kelly is love, Kelly is caring" stuff, when the episode ends like it did. New from Sigs by Syren!! Keep lookin' up, cuz that's where it all is. o-   Top

udg 3381 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Car Show Celebrity" 04-07-05, 08:27 AM (EST) 28. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" "Kelly is love, Kelly is caring" It's way more ironic than that, Boner. Words in blue were changed to the way she said she read the passage: Kelly is patient, Kelly is kind. She does not envy, she does not boast, she is not proud. She is not rude, she is not selfseeking, she is not easily angered, she keeps no record of wrongs. Kelly does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. She always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 (NIV) If there are any of those that she didn't get wrong, it's only because she didn't have an opportuinity to try. Slice n' Dice's Sigpic Chop Shop 2004   Top

Dakota 5819 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-06-05, 11:47 AM (EST) 2. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Does this mean you don't like her? I don't disagree, Femme, but I do covet her oobies. Charter Member: Club Anti-DAW   Top

nailbone 27263 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-06-05, 11:51 AM (EST) 3. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Shc could have looked quite hot in that tank-top, but the scowl on her face took away all the hotness. New from Sigs by Syren!! Keep lookin' up, cuz that's where it all is. o-   Top

Femme 3621 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Thong Contest Judge" 04-06-05, 12:19 PM (EST) 5. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Mon dieu! How true! The prettiest woman in the world with a crappy personality (especially when it shows so plainly on her face) is just ugly all over. (And, let's face it, she's hardly the prettiest woman in the world. Besides, chesty women look saggy when they cram an ample bosom into a tiny tanktop.) Femme I don't hate her, I just think she's a complete joke.   Top

ginger 22512 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-06-05, 12:21 PM (EST) 7. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" I think the lipliner needs a rethink. Not to mention the entire persona.   Top

warp_core breach 469 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Daytime Soap Guest Star" 04-06-05, 12:45 PM (EST) 9. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Loved it! Absolutely loved it! And yes, I was thinking the same thing - what saggy breasts for a woman her age.   Top

MissMyth 352 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Cooking Show Host" 04-06-05, 03:24 PM (EST) 11. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" HEY! They wouldn't have looked so saggy except Ron had to practice his goat milking technique. He should have let me help. I've already had lots of practice.   Top

Breezy 18380 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-06-05, 12:19 PM (EST) 4. "and..." I thought they taught balancing at beauty queen school? Me thinks Kelly was PMSing.   Top

ginger 22512 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-06-05, 12:21 PM (EST) 6. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Femme is not only Spot On, she's funny.   Top

choochoo 553 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Reality Show Commentator" 04-06-05, 12:27 PM (EST) 8. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" ..."even after you showed your true colors - which are ugly, like puce and baby-caca yellow"... Brilliant....genius.....ROFLMAO....no, stop, you're killing me! BWAAHAAHAAHAAAAA.......   Top

minitroll 3901 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Thong Contest Judge" 04-06-05, 01:58 PM (EST) 10. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Amen, Femme. I was never a big fan of Kelly's, but last night she really turned ugly when her inner shrew came out. Yikes, what a beyotch. Sigpic courtesy of the one and only IceCat.   Top

waldo555 104 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Blistex Spokesperson" 04-06-05, 03:28 PM (EST) 12. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" To be fair just because we didn't hear Ron say it doesn't mean he didn't. Maybe he turned his mic off or something. He didn't sound too convincing when denying it. Not that I like Kelly anyway.   Top

nailbone 27263 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-06-05, 03:49 PM (EST) 13. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" But she said that to him right after he told here to "chill out". I think he didn't say it, and couldn't figure out how she got that from what he did say. New from Sigs by Syren!! Keep lookin' up, cuz that's where it all is. o-   Top

ginger 22512 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-06-05, 03:58 PM (EST) 14. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" I'm pretty sure she misheard the "chill" comment. Or the voices in her head were so loud she misunderstood. Suspects Kelly was NOT "Miss Congeniality" in her pagent.   Top

choochoo 553 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Reality Show Commentator" 04-06-05, 05:12 PM (EST) 15. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Voices aside, I think she finally realized that she brings nothing to the table, so to speak. Seeing the race and her relationship both ultimately doomed, she lashes back with what little she has, pompous self-righteousness.   Top

packrat 112 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Blistex Spokesperson" 04-06-05, 05:25 PM (EST) 16. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" The comment "Losers can't win, Ron" when she was speaking of Rob qiuting the meat roadblock immediatly came to mind when she 'quit' the balancing challenge. I know it's not the same thing, but I couldn't help but think, what a double standard. I didn't hear Ron say that, either, but he could've off camera. They only have a relationship of convenience, anyway (so they could do the race).   Top

watermelon 184 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Blistex Spokesperson" 04-07-05, 12:22 PM (EST) 31. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" I don't like Kelly either and am not supporting her, but I don't think it's the same deal. Meat task was a roadblock, with no choice but to chow down or quit... detour was a choice between 2 tasks. I would have done exactly the same thing - try the balance thing, but if after a little while, I'm sure I can't do it, I would have moved on to the goats too. I don't think changing detours is considered quitting. And anyway, assessing what is the easiest detour to do rather than just persevering at a near-impossible task can sometimes further your game, eg Flo and Zach changed detours multiple times and still ended up winning! (all thanks to Zach, though! But that's another whole new story...)   Top

drtantalum 36 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Beauty Pageant Celebrity Judge" 04-07-05, 06:05 AM (EST) 27. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" LAST EDITED ON 04-07-05 AT 06:08 AM (EST) The same thing has happened before in other race episodes and in pretty much every reality show editing. When one person freaks out about something the other person supposedly said, if it was said it is shown. Now of course this can be the exception to the rule but editors of reality shows really love the he said she said stuff and typically center scenes around the disagreement. Truth be told I thought I heard him say Shut up to her (don't really remember if anything was bleeped out in the middle of those two words). Be quiet was probably more appropriate but under stressful, tired, cranky conditions I can see shut up coming out of someones mouth without them realizing it.   Top

Drive My Car 20045 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-06-05, 05:33 PM (EST) 17. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Right on, Femme! You nailed her, and after Kelly's performance last night, she deserved it. I never got the feeling they were a couple. Criticism based on character traits and behaviors is one thing, and it's understandable when a frustrated, stressed, or thwarted partner wants to let you know that you are in the wrong, but to corrupt the relationship by making a broad statement like, "You are a piece of trash," well, that's just off-limits in my book. It's not helpful, and it's indicative of your actual feelings for your partner. I agree completely.   Top

HistoryDetective 9516 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-06-05, 05:36 PM (EST) 18. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Yeah, when I heard her say that I thought "How do you ever back away from that comment?" It will always be hanging there between them... a sig by syren   Top

hunniebunns 119 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Blistex Spokesperson" 04-06-05, 06:02 PM (EST) 20. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Absolutely spot on, HD. Unless Ron forgets it (how could he??) I think the two of them are done. It was a hateful, spiteful & belittling (sp) comment to make and I think she it just for that reason...   Top

Oscirus 1596 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Peanut Festival Grand Marshall" 04-06-05, 06:01 PM (EST) 19. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Ron was not exactly a saint last night. He was harping on her for a while before she went off on him. Thank you for giving me honor in hat form.   Top

hunniebunns 119 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Blistex Spokesperson" 04-06-05, 06:05 PM (EST) 21. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" LAST EDITED ON 04-06-05 AT 06:07 PM (EST) I thought the same thing at first...I really did. I thought, Good lord, can he just quit b!itching. But, that's no need, IMO, to come back with a statement that attacks "who" he is...does that make sense?..(I'm not as eloquent as you and other posters.. )   Top

Oscirus 1596 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Peanut Festival Grand Marshall" 04-06-05, 06:17 PM (EST) 22. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Perfec sense. I think itt was just a result of her just getting pissed and letting out the first thing that came to mind regardless of the consequences. As for me being eloquent thanx for the comp but I am far from being that. Hell i have caused the great Pepe o boycott my posts due to lack of sense lol. Thank you for giving me honor in hat form.   Top

Dakota 5819 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-06-05, 10:19 PM (EST) 25. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" >But, >that's no need, IMO, to >come back with a statement >that attacks "who" he is...does >that make sense?..) Yes. Child Psych 103: Criticize the act, not the child. It works for adults too. Charter Member: Club Anti-DAW   Top

Desire 48 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Beauty Pageant Celebrity Judge" 04-06-05, 08:09 PM (EST) 23. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" I heard him say shut the F**k up. She kept nagging him and nagging him and nagging him. She deserved the comment. lol But in the show they did not show her make a fuss about it until later. He never said nothing more than chill after that. So she is twisted or the editing is all wrong in the show. We shall it again tonite I am sure. She is a whinny little troll too. She is weak.   Top

trudy 171 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Blistex Spokesperson" 04-06-05, 08:44 PM (EST) 24. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" I didn't hear him say it, but I agree he could have. In any case hearing "redneck trash" (white was only implied, not spoken aloud) pronounced in such a vituperative tone insulted my people and I'm suing someone. Maybe Kelly, maybe her parents, maybe her 2nd grade teacher, maybe NC, not sure yet but someone. Actually I'm a NYer, but I still feel insulted on behalf of all rednecks, and I'm still gonna. sue. somebody. ;)   Top

Jinxie 3 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "American Cancer Society Spokesperson" 04-06-05, 10:24 PM (EST) 26. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Femme, You said it! Kelly is an ugly person "inside", she is controlling and always has to be right. She doesn't want to the road blocks but she "thinks" she is the only one that knows how to do them. She is constantly tellig Ron how to do something and if he doesn't do it her way .... its the wrong way in her book. She is so catty! She needs to look in her bible and pray to be a better person. She needs her hearing checked, he did not tell her to "shut the eff up". She is a drama queen, its all about her. Please Kelly, look at how ugly you are and how ugly you are acting. Why don't you try working with him and helping him with the race instead of constantly nic-picking him to death? I would say his stay in Iraq was easier than being with Kelly!   Top

anotherkim 14420 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-07-05, 11:54 AM (EST) 29. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" You know how some people believe their own hype too much? That's Kelly. She's been told all her life she's the prettiest, she's the sweetest, she's the bestest, she's the most righteous, she's the most everything and I think she believes it. She apparently has no coping mechanisms and she's coming unglued bfore our eyes. Her true nasty inner self is being exposed for all the world to see and I love it. Miscellaneous Ramblings --I wish Ron HAD told her to shut the fvck up. I would have laughed my head off.   Top

bostonrobfan 490 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Daytime Soap Guest Star" 04-07-05, 12:18 PM (EST) 30. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" >You know how some >people believe their own hype >too much? That's Kelly. She's >been told all her life >she's the prettiest, she's the >sweetest, she's the bestest, she's >the most righteous, she's the >most everything and I think >she believes it. She apparently >has no coping mechanisms and >she's coming unglued bfore our >eyes. Her true nasty inner >self is being exposed for >all the world to see >and I love it. > Excellent point. I think that's it exactly. Everyone has told her how wonderful she is and she believes it. Unfortunately her actions don't back that up.   Top

nailbone 27263 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-07-05, 12:25 PM (EST) 32. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Kelly reminds me of the joke about the lady that gets pulled over by the cop. She asks why and the cop says that he's been following her for awhile now, and saw her tailgating, yelling out the window, and cursing and flipping off other drives. With all that, he saw the Christian fish and church bumper stickers on her car, and decided that she must have stolen the car. New from Sigs by Syren!! Keep lookin' up, cuz that's where it all is. o-   Top

KeithFan 7422 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold" 04-07-05, 12:36 PM (EST) 33. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" Bullseye!! I've gone back and forth on them(don't like 'em, like 'em, don't -Oh she of the great rack generally gets the benefit of the doubt ) but pure ugly came out. With the experiences he has been through I don't think anything she says to him can hurt him too much -they don't have a long relationship and a lot invested in it. Now will he tolerate it is another thing. I would certainly be out the door as soon as the race was over. Now, being the generous person that I am, I'll make an attempt at excusing Kelly is Love. Coming out of the blue like we heard it, it sounded awfully mean and spiteful, but we don't really know how the interplay in there relationship goes. Maybe Ron refers to himself in those terms frequently? Or maybe she really is just that ugly of a person.   Top

watermelon 184 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Blistex Spokesperson" 04-07-05, 02:25 PM (EST) 35. "RE: Rednecks, White Trash, and Moral Superiority" I just wanted to tell you that I love your dancing purple hippo!!!   Top

mtopaz 2167 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Roller Coaster Inaugurator" 04-07-05, 02:14 PM (EST) 34. "Couldn't agree more!" Thank you Femme, for holding up a mirror to this "beauty queen." Methinks she is Christian-in-name-only, and Ron would be well advised to dump her as soon as they are eliminated. Sig pic by JSlice   Top

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