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lrlaudisi 1 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "American Cancer Society Spokesperson"
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06-23-09, 05:39 AM (EST)
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Jon and Kate, I am a school teacher in Ct. I have seen many children over the last 22 years. Divorce turns those wonderful children into sad and completeley different individuals. Quite honestly, it ruins your children. It feels like a death to them. I also babysit for a friends daughter and son who lost their mom 3 years ago. These children would do anything to have their mom back. This has changed them tremendously. Unfortunately, they can't get their mom back, but Jon and Kate, can't you figure something out for your children? You both say it's all about the children, but it really is all about you. There are marriage councelors that can help save your marriage. A family unit means just that. Family stays together unless there is abuse. Work it out. You are teaching your children bad relationship skills and that it is easy to get out when the going gets tough. Communication is a powerful tool. You are all in this together. Good luck!
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Starshine 5033 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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06-23-09, 06:49 AM (EST)
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In some respects I agree with you, however I have two points.Firstly we do not know if John and Kate have been having counselling away from the camera. And secondly, to my mind bringing children up in a house where the parents relationship has broken down is much worse than having the parents split up, it keeps them away from the arguments and sniping, and also raises the possibility of a step parent. Arrrr Cap'n! Just another Sleeperbloke
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byoffer 15947 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Playboy Centerfold"
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06-23-09, 10:51 AM (EST)
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Family stays together unless there is abuse. Have you ever seen the way Kate speaks to Jon? I have to agree with Starshine. While I would prefer not to have ever divorced, I am sure that I am in a much better relationship now, and that showing my kids this better relationship is better than putting them through years of seeing a broken one. Marriage councelors? Definitely not magic healers of marriages.
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KevinAnne 1 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "American Cancer Society Spokesperson"
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06-23-09, 05:34 PM (EST)
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Irlaudisi, I could not agree with you more. They each say that this is what "has" to happen and that they were doing their "best" for their children. I'm sorry but that is simply BS. Loving your spouse often is more an act of your will than a feeling. Act out that love and the feelings will follow - I promise, I know.The only thing in this that would be good for those poor kids is for their parents to be slapped in the face, take responsibility for the reality of their situation and FIX IT. Jon clearly checked out of that marriage long ago and I can't say I blame him - she is often downright verbally abusive on film. HOWEVER, Kate is so frustrated with Jon by his seemingly irresponsible behavior that I can't say I blame her either. Both are at fault and as you said, are only thinking about themselves. Jon - you may only be 32 but you should have thought about that before you fathered 8 children. Your feelings don't give you the rights to ruin the lives of these human beings. So frustrated....was once a loyal view but I AM OUT.
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Agman2 2620 desperate attention whore postings DAW Level: "Survivor-themed Cruise Spokesperson"
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04-12-16, 11:09 AM (EST)
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You only posted once and that was almost 7 years ago.
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