i don't believe th U.S. should have no military, i think it shouldn't exist.

This statement confuses me but I think you are saying we shouldn't have a military. If that is the case, how the world do you think the United States would defend themselves from the idiots around the world that want to see the downfall of this country? After 9/11, I think it is obvious that there are people all around the world that don't like us.

so i instead try to keep it from dictating everyones lies.

Just because you think it is lies doesn't make it so nor does it make the people that believe any more wrong. This is the problem I have with the approach many people take. Many Christians have the idea that they are completely right and that their way is the only way. You too have the same mindset. In order to make any headway and understanding you have to be willing to listen and try to understand the other way of thinking.

if you have christian principles that don't involve killing someone over adultery, great.

I don't think many Christian beliefs today involve killing someone over adultery...at least not the churches I have attended.

One thing I wish you would address is your non-respect of the Christian woman. Have you not been taught to respect others and their beliefs?