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8. "RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'"
Estee's response caused me to search for "cult like." I found an interesting advice column on how to successfully build a cult like following. Let's see how Coach is doing and whether Boston Rob did it better, shall we?

http://www.mindpowernews.com/BuildACult.htm

"1. Initiation vs. Instruction

There is a marked difference between learning by instruction and learning by initiation.

Learning by initiation is about creating an experience that makes the learning personal and visceral to the student. ..
There are many things that you could simply tell someone and they would intellectually understand but they wouldn't “get it” as an insight. They would only see it as information. The result is that they may use it or they may not.

Teaching by initiation means holding back on simply telling what the student wants to know and instead provide an experience where the student “gets it” on their own.

2. Being Accessible

Someone once told me that “There are no long lines for the guru at the bottom of the hill.”

Making yourself scarce adds perceived value but it also distances you from the masses. If you want a cult-like following you need access to the masses otherwise you're just an ivory tower wannabe.

Be accessible as a person but present your knowledge and wisdom as being rare, expensive, mysterious, and only for those who are truly ready for it.

This compromise allows you to build deep personal bonds with people yet have them want more or your presence...

You can add to this compromise by having “special times” when you are not accessible to anyone. You can tell people that you are meditating, or doing your “spiritual practice” but you don't have to say anything. It's the mystery of why you are absent that you want to cultivate.

3. Imply Secret Knowledge

The role of simply remaining calm and silent will recur again in this essay so I can't understate it. Here is where silence is worth a 1000 words. Saying things like “Hmmm... There are 100 possible solutions to that within your own mind.” and nothing else implies things that you know and that they should know.

4. Remaining calm as if all-knowing

Any sharp change in your emotional state, with the exception of joy and laughter, should be minimized. Any leader/teacher who goes on an angry rant is demonstrating their own lack of control. If you truly have control it should be demonstrated by an unshakable calm as if everything is happening just as you knew it would.

5. Create a detached involvement as if “you” are in a “higher place”

In doing this people will look to you as if there is something more to you than your mere physical presence.

6. Connect deeply with the individual

Here rapport is vital. When you are with people you need to put aside all of your distractions, obligations and problems to focus completely on the person or people you to whom you are speaking.

7. “Chunk Up” whenever possible

This may be a bit abstract to grasp but it's important to creating an appeal because it forces people to think in bigger terms. When you do consistently if gives the impression that you are always thinking bigger than them.

“Chunking Up” is an NLP term that means referring to something that contains what is spoken about as a subset . It can also refer to something that controls or has a larger reach than the topic at hand.

As an example when a person asks “Do you enjoy adult beverages?” a chunked up response would be “There are many adult pleasures I enjoy.” Here, “beverages” is a subset of “pleasures”.

Another example : Statement: “I'll go with you if you promise to control yourself.” Response “I have no intention of controlling how much I enjoy myself.” Here “control” is a subset of “Enjoyment”.

8. Always allude to the mysterious

This can be done by doing the opposite of name dropping. Refer to a very skilled person you learned from who doesn't normally take students. Mention an arcane text that describes a mysterious process you went through. Mention it took you ten years of study to read between the lines and find the real meaning to the work.

9. God-Like Confidence

Here is where the work of Blair Warren in “The Worlds Greatest Cult” really comes in handy. He describes what's called “The God Complex” which encompasses many of the concepts discussed here.

The God Complex is a great example of “chunking up” because it's about seeing EVERYTHING that can possibly happen as if it's all part of the plan and being okay with it.

The God Complex is about having such a larger view of the world and your place in it so that what you are doing, this very moment , regardless of what transpires will be as if it was meant to you be.

10. Appeal to peoples needs and wants

A deep understanding about what people truly respond to is vital if you want to influence anyone. Each individual has their own wants and needs that you have keep in the forefront of your mind.
People will also respond to the same basic needs being fulfilled; the need to be needed, the need for hope in a tough time, the need to feel in control, the need blame something else for their troubles, the need to learn about something they don't know or not supposed to know.

Conclusion

The desire for a cult-like following has many benefits and many responsibilities. The hardest of the responsibilities is simply living up to what you are presenting to people. For that reason I always recommend that you live what you teach."

(JK Ellis is the author of Mind Control 101: How to Influence the Thoughts of Others Without Them Knowing or Caring)

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  Subject     Author     Message Date     ID  
 E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Blind Freddy     11-28-11       
   RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Blind Freddy     11-28-11     1  
     RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Outfrontgirl     11-28-11     2  
     RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   dabo     11-28-11     3  
         RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Outfrontgirl     11-28-11     4  
     RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Flowerpower     11-28-11     6  
   RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Estee     11-28-11     5  
     RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   CTgirl     11-28-11     7  
   RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Outfrontgirl     11-28-11     8  
     RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   michel     11-28-11     10  
         RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   PepeLePew13     11-28-11     11  
             RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Outfrontgirl     11-28-11     12  
             RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   michel     11-28-11     13  
                 RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   PepeLePew13     11-29-11     17  
                     RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   michel     11-29-11     18  
                         RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   PepeLePew13     11-29-11     22  
                             RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   michel     11-29-11     23  
                             RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Outfrontgirl     11-30-11     24  
                                 RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   michel     11-30-11     25  
         RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Outfrontgirl     11-28-11     14  
   RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Outfrontgirl     11-28-11     9  
     RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   SquidProQuo     11-29-11     15  
     RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   dabo     11-29-11     16  
     RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Blind Freddy     11-29-11     19  
         RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Flowerpower     11-29-11     20  
   RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Outfrontgirl     11-29-11     21  
     RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Flowerpower     11-30-11     26  
     RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   dabo     11-30-11     27  
         RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Outfrontgirl     11-30-11     28  
             RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   Flowerpower     11-30-11     32  
         RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   michel     11-30-11     29  
             RE: E11 Title - 'Cult Like'   dabo     11-30-11     31  
   MESS GUT predictions   Outfrontgirl     11-30-11     30  

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