i was definitely surprised by the comment.. it seemed to come out of nowhere. if niambi was so defensive against white women, then where is her animosity towards kim and jodi and cassie and sommer and rhonda?

i thought niambi was very clear in expressing that she was pissed because she thinks christie acts self-righteous and judgmental. i thought she was very clear in stating that it's annoying that christie has to have someone hold her hand through her process. how does that equate to niambi feeling like christie represents oppressive white women in her life?

and if that was a real concern of hers, why didnt she bring that up when they met with iyanla?

also, i didnt like how iyanla told niambi that christie just represented her mother or whatever. why does someone always have to represent someone else in the house? why cant it just be that christie was being whiny, judgmental, etc.