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8. "RE: Christie and no repsonsibility"
Juliejo ~ I agree with your assessment of Christie's motives, etc. She obviously never learned how to act or learned any people skills before coming into the SO house. Personally I can't stand all her whinning about everyone else and the attitude of superiority know-it-all she comes into the confessional with but I do understand where it comes from. However, why aren't the LCs teaching her how to present herself and how to go about getting what she needs and wants. Instead, they encourage her whinning and complaining. Why didn't Rhonda explain to her how she needs to approach the professionals she feels so much less than. Very few in the "professional" world really feel as confident and self-assured all the time as they would have you think ... (been there, done that) they just learn how to present themselves. Many of us didn't learn what to do from our parents and had to learn it out there on our own but you would think being in the SOH, Rhonda et al. would teach her how to act and ask.

Someone needs to tell these women that feel they are less capable than most, that EVERYONE has their self-esteem issues. EVERYONE feels afraid, isn't sure they are up to the task, are often afraid to ask for what they want, fear rejection ... all the same things they feel. They just learn to push through it without analyzing every detail thinking that it will go away if they know why. Sorry, that doesn't work. The only thing that works is to DO IT. Put the fear behind you and do it anyway. Present yourself as the person you want to be and soon you will be there. Whinning about it and getting someone else to do it will only hurt your self-esteem. And rewarding Christie for whinning about other HMs is only keeping her locked up in her own fears.

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  Subject     Author     Message Date     ID  
 Christie and no repsonsibility   Anne18     05-11-06       
   RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   eire_heart74     05-11-06     1  
     RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   Baxtera     05-11-06     2  
     RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   startingover2     05-12-06     26  
   RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   JustBNMe     05-11-06     3  
     RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   Juliejo     05-11-06     4  
         RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   Anne18     05-11-06     5  
             RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   mirage3033     05-11-06     7  
         RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   annie828     05-11-06     6  
             RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   startingover2     05-12-06     27  
         RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   26mitogo     05-11-06     8  
             RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   Baxtera     05-11-06     10  
                 RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   techstyle     05-11-06     14  
   RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   BlueCollar Blonde     05-11-06     9  
     RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   Baxtera     05-11-06     11  
         RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   tac_2     05-11-06     12  
             RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   Omniscia     05-12-06     24  
             RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   maryellennaco     05-12-06     28  
         RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   BlueCollar Blonde     05-11-06     13  
     RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   mirage3033     05-11-06     15  
         RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   Sues     05-11-06     16  
             RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   Baxtera     05-11-06     17  
                 RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   mirage3033     05-11-06     18  
   RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   Redbud     05-11-06     19  
   RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   Redbud     05-11-06     20  
   RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   sillybear     05-11-06     21  
     RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   Juliejo     05-11-06     22  
         RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   annie828     05-11-06     23  
             RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   mirage3033     05-12-06     25  
   RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   maryellennaco     05-12-06     29  
     RE: Christie and no repsonsibility   geminirose     05-12-06     30  

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