>Hi! I have a lot of
>mixed feelings from different posters
>about leaving messages on this
>board. Some people don't believe
>that I am really the
>former girlfriend of Mr. Situation
>Man (I don't blame you),
>while others think that I
>am only trying to start
>drama. I'll be honest with
>you. At first, when I
>signed on to post, I
>did want to tell you
>all about Ms. Niambi, but
>I thought better of it.
>Watching the show, I realize
>that she beats herself up
>enough. (And I've also read
>other viewers posts and realized
>that I REALLY didn't need
>to add anymore. OUCH!)I know
>some people may think it
>kind of sick that I'm
>watching the show, but it
>has actually brought more clarity
>to me, than hurt. I
>used to really dislike Niambi
>(still not too fond of
>her, to be truthful with
>you), but now I just
>feel sorry for her more
>than anything else. And watching
>the show has actually made
>me stronger. It's made me
>realize that I too, was
>making a fool of myself
>and was in love with
>a man, who didn't even
>love himself. And it makes
>me wonder how could a
>man do this to two
>women who deserve so much
>better? Yes, in my eyes
>Niambi is "the other woman",
>but she, like me, deserves
>better than what we've been
>given by this man. And
>that is the bottom line.
>
>
>Now about the show: This show
>was shot back in Dec/Jan
>(as you may or may
>not know) and Mr. Situation
>Man and I weren't together
>at that time. I was
>actually out of town visiting
>my family, but I was
>still talking to Mr. Situation
>Man daily. He was trying
>to get back together with
>me and thought that if
>he told me about everytime
>Niambi called that it would
>make me trust him. So,
>I actually knew about Niambi's
>calls and e-mail. Why he
>hung up on her or
>was disconnected, is beyond me...I
>was just a shocked as
>you guys! As I stated
>earlier, I was out of
>town so it wasn't because
>of me. For all I
>know, it could have been
>someone else that was there.
>(I wouldn't be surprised.)
>
>But, I honestly feel like this
>show is a blessing in
>disguise (as weird as that
>may sound), because it's showing
>me the woman (Niambi) that
>I will become if I
>don't make the necessary changes
>in my life. And like
>I stated earlier, I feel
>myself becoming stronger everyday. Mr.
>Situation Man (true to form),
>has tried to come back
>with the "I love you's"
>and the long face, and
>I have totally brushed him
>aside, as I should have
>done so a very long
>time ago. But, that's O.K.
>No time wasted. A necessary
>life experience. A lesson taught.
>A message sent. That's how
>I look at this whole
>"situation". So, this post may
>get negative comments (as my
>other posts did), but this
>is actually therapeutic for me.
>Sharing my thoughts and feelings.
>And, to the other posts
>that gave me positive feedback,
>thank you for your kind
>words. This will be my
>last post...
>
>-Nikai

If you are who you say you are then who was the poster using the name MissSituationMan (or something very similar to that)? If that was also you then how come you're using another name now?