I, for one, LOVE Antonia's spunk! To me, she's the realest person in the house. I love the fact that she's not totally enamored with the LCs. And I really love the fact that she sees herself as on their level. Sometimes Iyanla doesn't know what to do with her because she is so used to dealing with sheep that want simply to be herded. Antonia may be spoiled, financially bankrupt, and even some what immature, but she is no one's sheep, and she has got my respect for that. Besides, where is it written that you can't express a contrary opinion in that house? I know Rhonda and Iyanla aren't really used to it, but that's just because Antonia is just the first person who really does...and it makes me want to gag to even type this...but Antonia is the embodiment of standing in her truth. She knows who she is and despite her presence in the SO house, she seems to be pretty Ok with it. I think if Antonia learned some financial management skills, she'd be alright. The maturity part would come with life and experience.