I cried and cried today while watching poor Niambi at the BOR. I hated that she got the C. I can sure relate to what she is going through. My own mother was the exactly the way Iylanda described. It was an emotional BOR and maybe Niambi will let go of her pain and begin to make some major changes. I really really like her and I hope she kicks Mr. Situation to the curb. I can see why after watching her today she settles for sloppy seconds. Her self-esteem is nil and she really believes she is worthless. I want her to succeed. It is a darn shame that parents are given a hand book on the do's and dont's of what to say to your children. It has really screwed up lots of people. I read somewhere that it takes 100 at a boy's for one negetative comment made by your parents. So many women fall into this catagory and SO has a great opportunity to do some real good for lots of women. I hope they use it wisely.