>I was so disappointed to see
>Niambi on the phone with
>situation man. This man
>is never going to love
>her. She is allowing
>her self to be nothing
>more than a sexual object,
>a booty-call. I can
>only hope that any other
>women out there who might
>be in similar situations can
>see how disrespective to one's
>self this type of behavior
>is. I just hope
>that when this man finely,
>and completely breaks her heart,
>that she doesn't suddenly declare
>all men to be worthless
>dogs. My older brother
>taught me a very profound
>lesson when I was just
>15 or 16-years-old.
>
>I was walking home from the
>corner store when a very
>handsome young man stopped to
>talk to me. We
>stood at the corner and
>held a very polite conversation,
>when my older brother walked
>up and ordered me to
>go home. He later
>told me that he knew
>that I wasn't doing anything
>wrong, but the message being
>sent by allowing a strange
>guy to stop me on
>a street corner to flirt
>was not the one I
>should desire. He said,
>"If you want to be
>treated like a lady, you
>have to present a lady."
> All he meant was
>that guys will treat women
>the way they allow themselves
>to be treated. I've
>taken that little talk my
>brother gave me way back
>in the 70's throughout my
>life. And, I am
>happy to say, that for
>the most part, all the
>guys I dated were pretty
>decent, because I would not
>accept anything less. My
>husband of 18-years has been
>absolutely wonderful to me.
>
>So, Niambi, get off the street
>corner, drop the player-player, and
>start treating yourself well, so
>that others (especially men) will
>follow suit. I'm not
>judging you Niambi, I think
>you are a beautiful, intelligent
>woman (except when it comes
>to situation man). Cry,
>scream, beat the wall, but
>please girl, wash that fool
>right out of your hair
>and heart!
>
>DeltaDarkStar

Wow, what a wonderful brother! I do hope you gave him a warm hug for his caring of you.......

Well, now I wonder if maybe the girlfriend knows about Niambi?

And if not, if she watches the show and recognized a familar male voice?

Ladt but not least: Loved your post. smiles