While we really don't know her well enough yet other than the loss of her daughter, she seems to be a kind and well rounded person to me. Then again, Allison seemed to be that way aside from her cancer at first and later, we got a completely different picture of her. Point being, I'm not sure if I buy into this theory but you never know.

Also, on the SO site, they have a list of issues they were looking for in auditioning cast-mates and I believe that one of them was "loss of a child".

I think the SO house could be a good place for her with 2 conditions:

1). That she focuses on herself and doesn't compare her tragedy with the other HMs.

2). I think she needs to continually see people (maybe a support group) with people who are dealing with the same thing she is. No one in the house (except Iyanla) can understand what she's been through.

She said something in confession when she first got there - that even though they have very different issues, they all have a lot in common. I thought that was very understanding of her, given the weight of why she is there. If she meant it, I think this says a loy about her character.

I think the downside of her being in the house is that no one can really relate to her and that the cameras are on her and that she's away from her family.

I think the upside is that she is getting support from Dr. Stan and the LCs and that even if she isn't ready to face all of the stages of greif, she is still learning tools that can help her through it now or when she is at a point where she can put them to use.

Bethany is always talking about her indescision to stay in the house or go home but I'd like to hear her state why exactly she is undecided. If it's because of her immense pain then I think this would be a good, safe place for her. Then again, family is important during this time as well.

And when I said this should be a safe place for her, even though her grief is on TV, unlike many of the other guests, I don't think she has the shame or embarrassment that many of the other house mates deal with. She's not really revealing any secrets that would be shamful to her or her family.

I feel for her though and support whatever decision she makes.