LAST EDITED ON 08-22-12 AT 04:54 PM (EST)1. What would you do if you found out your partner/spouse had cheated on you? I would confront her and ask for an explanation.
2. Does it matter if it were a long-term deal or just a one-night fling? No.
3. Does your opinion change if alcohol/drunkeness was a contributing factor? No.
4. What if it weren't the first time? That's a stickier situation. Counseling would be a requirement in any case, but I would seriously consider separation if cheating happened more than once.
5. Any other thoughts/questions/comments? People make mistakes. If they show true remorse and don't make that choice again, a relationship can survive. Serial infidelity requires a serious, definitive, cease-and-desist demand.