I find myself agreeing with Gilby most of the time. Actually, Jason too. I've even agreed with Tommy when he slips & forgets to be a pig for a minute.Jill absoluetly needed to be called on that. Watching it, within 10 seconds I was yelling at the TV, "Leave that man alone!" It just looked stupid. And yeah - cheap.
Plus, the whole respect thing...yeah, it's a rock song, performance, blah blah blah -- but he's still one of the guys she's auditioning for.
And BTW, for performers, it's generally expected & appreciated that you give someone a heads-up if you're going to be physical with them on stage. "Hey, in that scene/song, at that moment...I'd like to grab your shoulders -- you OK with that?" Especially the first (and probably last) time you're on stage with them.
She's the jerk. And an idiot.