>Hi,
>
>Of course I new they would
>do that. I had
>no doubt. I was
>simply pointing out that the
>assumptions the original post made
>were incorrect. I don't
>blame anyone for feeling that
>way, as they do not
>know our reality. I
>was actually happy with the
>show in the end, because
>I kind of thought it
>was going to be worse
>than it ended up.
>
>As for dress. You say
>my daughters dressed inappropriate.
>First, I only have one
>daughter and I would ask
>you to go and watch
>the show again. My
>daughter wears jeans and tshirts
>everyday. What is so
>wrong with that.
>
>Again, my wife gave the girls
>a huge bag of clothes
>to choose from. The point
>is letting them choose what
>they want. Did they
>maybe choose clothes that were
>racy. That is your
>opinion, but had they been
>allowed to choose while they
>were growing up perhaps they
>would not have gone that
>"extreme". That was Jinxi's
>point. Allow them to
>make little choices so they
>can learn from them.
>Of course the dad coming
>in and calling them hoochies
>hurt them for the rest
>of their lives.
>
>I feel so bad for those
>girls. They already
>told Jinxi the day they
>turn 18 they are moving
>out getting an apartment, getting
>tattooed and basically doing crazy.
> They have so much
>built up inside them with
>no way to let it
>out.
>
>I would have apologized to her
>if she was at all
>remorsefull for what she said
>and did to me.
>Even when I apologized for
>what I did say to
>her after rule change, all
>she said was I am
>not here to hurt you.
> I am here to
>help you. Again, save
>my soul.
>
>My reason for posting her was
>so the orginal poster who
>seems to write alot about
>Wife Swap, could maybe learn
>that she need to understand
>the dynamics of the show
>more, instead of making assumptions
>about the people on it.
> I mean she even
>said she was disappointed that
>we did not talk about
>certain things. I mean
>the show is only 44
>minutes out of 12000.
>I is not hard to
>see how you do not
>see 99.65% of what was
>actually filmed. We only
>filmed for 10 hours a
>day. After the crew
>left is when the real
>taling happens.
>
>
>Anyway,
>
>Thanks.
>
>Steve

Well, I still feel you didn't owe her an apology....It is YOUR home and she had no respect for the atmosphere of the home.....which I felt was fine. Heck, I would have most likely blown up and thrown her out.

I stand corrected on the cooment regarding your daughter (I still had it taped so re-watched it).

I agree that if they had been allowed all along to pick their clothes (I allowed my daughter to and she never gave me reason to intervene) then maybe the clothes they picked on the show would have been more appropriate.

I want to say thanks for your replies....you are one patient person but that is probally why you didn't throw BM out as I would have. smiles

Again, best wishes to you and your family.......