Most of today was about Allison, Christina & Jill. First, Iyanla asked the group to think about how they manipulate, and the fear that motivates it. Lisa & Allison both expressed that they do what others want and are "nice". Christina said "fulfilling others needs". Iyanla questioned that one....Allison, while sitting with Iyanla and an artist (doing a rendering of her), stated that she at one point had tried to kill/hurt herself by cutting her wrists. She had to see the ugly rendering, then they talked about what she needed to do to get through it, and the artist did a nice picture of her to show what she'd look like afterwords.
Christina had to hustle the others for poker chips today. She started with asking for help with little things, then started getting money from others for "a movie". Afterwords, her & Iyanla talked about what it means to hustle others, and the respect that she will lose, from everyone, including her son!! I don't think Christina's getting it...has anyone actually seen her REAALLLLLYY cry?? I feel like she's going through the motions, but hasn't seen the light yet.
Jill went to Jenny Craig and only lost a pound this week. Iyanla, as a motivator, told her that for every lb from now on that she loses, she can shed a layer of garments from her "Jill" doll. Also, her doctor called and she has a low red blood count, and told her not to continue to excercise until she has more tests done.
Lastly, Lisa continues to drive me NUTS!!! She has NO thoughts for others.....they are at a restaurant, and she starts talking about how she hustled the staff for free desert...and then said "well, I didn't ask for dinner, that would be what a HOOKER would do...or shopping, that would be what a HOOKER would do"....with Christina sitting right there...AGAIN. I mean...do you not SEE THE LOOK ON HER FACE WHEN YOU TALK LIKE THAT???? HELLO????
So.....that's what I saw....did I miss anything?