I don't know if you had a chance to watch Joe Millionaire 2...which I thought was way better than the first one... the bachelor seemed like a nice guy and very unworldly among very worldly European women. He looked like a kid lost in a candy store and truly in love with one of the girls there...here's a guy with almost nothing suddenly put in a room with all the wealth in the world and a bunch of dream girls... kind of refreshing to see a guy that's kind of innocent who isn't jaded... and it was humorous how even though he was supposed to have 80 million he still had the habits of a poor guy not knowing anything about the world. Those shows (Joe MIllionaire 2, For Love or Money and even Average Joe) were great because they dealt with social dynamics and the audience was let in on a secret and we got to watch the contestants catch up to the secret.... Right now, they don't really have shows like that... they try with shows like Love in the wild...but they don't focus on the social aspect that was what was engaging about those original shows back in the heydey.